what's the hardest thing for you about being gay?

Ideals Of What It Is?? ... Im Not In The Club??.......".BULLSHIT" ..Gay Men Come From All Walks Of Life. The Stereotype Gay With The Lisp And The Limp Wrist Died Out Twenty Years Ago........Only Appears In Cheap T.V. Shows For A Cheap Laugh. This Is 2007!!!...Catch Up "SUNSHINE"...Nowdays Gays Don't Have To Dance To "Anybodys Tune"........Be Gay...Be Yourself...AND BE PROUD..........Cheers Glen.

 

Hey man, don't patronise me,
You can't say that at least half of what i've mentioned is not true in one way or another.

Everybody says it's 'ok' to be different, that we don't have to dance to a secular tune, that's all fun and games on paper;
If you don't want to be ostracised, you have to conform.

Ultimately, it's up to which eye you want to look at things from, and it's each to their own...
but sometimes, i don't feel proud, and i'm not ashamed to say that ;|

 

I don't conform in the slightest, not in the gay community and not in the straight, but it does help where you are living, where I am is pretty tolerant to all walks of life
S

 

Hi Majestical.....Would Like To Offer A Sincere Apology For Coming On A Bit Too Strong In My Post Last Night.....Had More Than A Couple Of "Wines" Under My Belt (no excuse i know)...Please Accept My Regrets.......Cheers Glen.

 

good for you, people rarely apologise on here
S

 

Hahaha, no i actually apologise myself, i get like that at times, a bit hot-headed.

No hard feelings ;]

 

hardest thing about being gay is sometimes you may be people may be too judgemental even your friends.....but in this world you really cant care on what people say about you but sometimes it does matter when your loved ones may feel some type of way....thats my opinion

 

The hardest thing about being gay is my erect penis!!



Just kidding!!

But seriously, it is that we have to hide it from the rest of society, then we are accused of being liars and hyopocrites about being gay, but if society was not so goddamned homophobic, then we gays would not have to lie about it and be sneaky when it comes to having gay sex in parks, public bathrooms, and having to have gay bathhouses like Midtowne Spa or ACI to "safely" get it on with others like us with minimal interference from the straights.

 

Majestical - what did you mean by "not being in the club"?

 

The hardest thing for me being a gay guy is i have little or no female influence in my life and boy does it show. The opposite sex thread shows clearly my lack of tact in dealing with people but in particular females. I eat, sleep, drink and fantasise about guys ...guys dominate my world. Not having any real female influence definitely has a negative impact on my life although it should be corrected when i go to University next year where i will be surrounded by girls and thakfully will have no option but to engage in friendly discussion with them. At the moment they are slightly alien to me...ive alot to learn.

 

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