whats the hardest part about being a chick

how you get that gunk off youre eyes without making em,, all red in the process?

 

The hardest part is the pecker, otherwise chicks are soft and furry. Of course, the chicks you are discussing usually don't have peckers unless they are shemales.

 

I AM, therefore I am.

 

Scratch most likely - I fucking give up.

 

i think both are easy.
But i'd give anything to be a dude for a day,
just to experience head, handjobs, and sex from your perspective haha

 

simply called make up remover.

 

Women have a lot to put up with, that's why I'm glad I'm a man. The behaviour of some men is one of them.

 

You know what? This has always bugged me. Hollywood always makes strong women out to be bitches. I know strong women that are far from bitches. They are just strong. You don't have to be a bitch to be strong. I am a strong man and far from being a dick. This is definitely where people make mistakes. I know bitches who think they are strong because they are bitches and all it really tells me is that they are incapable of controlling themselves, emotionally. Thus, They are not really strong at all. In fact rather loose and weak. Same goes for men.

 

I love that "earn the tag for a while" perfect!

 

man, I dig you. What a rockin way to go about life. Sure saves you a lot of grief, doesn't it?

 

Doc Holiday. There is supposed to be a picture in there but it doesn't show up. My firewall at work bombs all pictures.

 

he was a bad ass cowboy in the good ole days..alcoholic though

val kilmer played a good role.

 

The hardest part of being a woman is balancing your career with your family and house...

 

I can only speak for myself when I say this, since different women will find different things hard.

Hormones. I know the answers weren't meant to include periods, but I'm not just talking about the bleeding stage of every month. My body is very sensitive to my hormones and it has at times made me very ill. I have certain allergies that only cause problems depending on where I am in my cycle, or how much of a certain hormone I have in my system. And I'm not just talking about feeling sick, I can develop excruciating pain all over my body. During my period, I can bleed from various places. It sounds odd, but my skin can bubble and blister like a burn and then bleed from my arms, legs etc. I can't sleep at all during it so I end up worn out and even sicker, I can't bear to be touched or have anything on my skin and also my eyes and throat are affected so eating is hard and I lose weight dangerously fast, so the second I eat again I put a whole lot more back on. I've taken steroids for it in the past and they're horrible. However, I found a great doctor who has managed to keep it under control the past year. It's still scary thinking I may have to go through that again though.

Weight. I'm not saying this doesn't apply to both sexes, but it's something I find hard as a girl. In the past two years I've put on 25lb. I've always been skinny, so it shouldn't be much of a big deal. In fact I originally welcomed it. But people really notice it. I used to get "You're too skinny" and "Eat a good meal" and also the nicer "You have a lovely figure" and now it's "Oh you've put on a lot of weight" or "What dress size are you now?". It actually hurts. It's annoying enough that I have a stunning wardrobe and can no longer fit in to my favourite jeans. But I get sick a lot less and I'm generally much healthier, so I should be happy. But I realise I won't ever be happy with my weight. My sister is anorexic and although I won't ever go down that route, I can understand why some young girls do that to themselves.

Being a chick with a father like mine. He isn't really a good dad, is incredibly selfish and puts little or no effort into everything. Yet he's over protective. It's an incredibly annoying contradiction.

 

For me personally, and I can't know if this applies to anyone else....it's the expectations..... I have always had all male friends. Always. don't ask me why, it's just always been that way. And sure, in the past I've had crushes on them. In fact, I think I've had a crush of my friends at some point during the friendship. Mostly one sided crushes. I have a look that not many men appreciate. That was mostly like 10th grade.

My senior year of high school (just graduated), however, brought about a turn of the tables. Suddenly, I call a male friend just to hang out, and boom he's making a move on me. Or one minute we're just talking, the next minute our tongues are dancing. I tried doing a "friends with benefits" type deal with a friend of mine, until I realized he was using me as a booty call, and totally discarded our friendship. Like intimacy and friendship couldn't coexist. Whatever, call me naive.

But it's just the expectation that when I hang out with a male friend, suddenly now it's something more. It's an invitation to bed. I don't want it to be like that. I recently hung out with an old friend (who happens to be an ex boyfriend, the only one I have) because we're both in the country. We were having fun, ate at a cafe, went to the market, walked around, went back to my apartment to smoke some hookah and listen to music and next thing I know he's making a move on me.

So then most people say it's MY fault. I was leading HIM on. Recently, though, a friend told me "leading someone on is a two way street". So I hate how it's always the girl leading the guy on, she has to apologize because he misread the signals.

I hate how being a woman means one either covers themselves, or is asking for it. Recently I went to the beach, skinny dipping with some friends. Male and female. The guys were totally NOT into me, which was great, because it meant I could swim naked next to them and there was no expectation, I wasn't inviting anything. But then a random man walked up to me and grabbed my boob. Which infuriated me, because first off, I don't like being grabbed and the son of a bitch was lucky I didn't kick his balls so far in that they came out of his mouth. Second of all, though, I know that the guys weren't harassed for being naked. But of course if a GIRL is naked it's like "well this is a public beach; you're just ASKING for that kind of harassment by being naked"

I'm not asking for anything except to have fun, and to be friends with guys without being scared that they expect anything else of me. I don't want to be scared to take my clothes off at a public beach if I want to.

This was long, but that is what I dislike most about being a woman. It might just be my own naivete, but I don't think this is how things are supposed to be.