What's the average age when...

I was 13 he was 16, and I always got with older guys because they thought I was in college or something. Cuz I acted more mature than my friends, they always said.

 

Dude, if I lost mine at 18 my parents would flip! They are so super conservative. I believe it should happen in a relationship and should really know that person well and love them with all your heart. It also depends on your emotional maturity.

 

i was 13. is that bad?

 

Well, that's kind of young but if you were mature than I suppose not...

 

I was 15 and so was she - worked out pretty fine..

 

I was fifteen, a few months from being 16. It was on September 2, 2000 and I was on vacation with my boyfriend. He was my first love and we were craaazy in love with each other so it was all good.I always said I was going to wait until I was married. It's soo hard to do that these days.

 

I bet you thought your name was Jesus Christ too! "Jesus Christ, shut up!"
"Jesus Christ, go to your room!"

 

Aldjfioasjfliajsel;ifjsef I'll be 18 in 7 days, and I can't see loss of virginity in my near future. God dammit.

 

As I said before I'm not a virgin, but if I were to have sex right now at this point in my life I would mess alot of things up. Regarding my emotional state. So I don't see how any person can be ready at such a young age, but that's life i guess. Always trying to race through things + pretend to be older.

 

Most people assume that when you say your virginity is lost it's voluntary. In my opinion, even if you technically lose your virginity to rape, it shouldn't count as losing it since you had no say in the matter. Relax, no one is attacking you.

-Kate

 

I agree with strawberry. When I say "I can't believe it" I mean, "I can't believe someone would choose to have sex so young." I'm sorry to hear what happened to you. And we're deffinatly not attacking you!

 

Yeah i know ppl who gave it away at 12 too. But I was 17 and he was 18 when we gave it to eachother.

 

"So I don't see how any person can be ready at such a young age, but that's life i guess. Always trying to race through things + pretend to be older."


I suppose that makes sense. But it's not really that. I've not had a girlfriend thus far in my life, besides one girl who randomly asked me to dance at a school dance in 7th grade then asked me out. I had never seen her before, and two weeks later it was over because I was terrified of talking to her. It was just in words that she was a girlfriend. We didn't do anything, no date or anything. Living in a rich community (full of assholes), a school with clearly defined social classes, and being terribly shy has left me quite lonely. I imagine when I do lose my virginity, my age will be high enough that it will be embarrassing to tell the girl it's my first time (assuming I ever lose it).

 

i was 19. i ran away from home & stayed with my (then) bf who later became my ex-husband.

 

babyfreak, nobody here's going to judge you. it happens to the best of us. i just posted & said 19, because i only count the voluntary loss. otherwise i'd have had to say younger, but i am totally not going there tonight.

 

16 seems to be the average age.

 

Yeah 12 seems real young. I was 16.

 

I was 16 he was 17 but he really pressured me into it and I regret it so much
The guy I'm with now was a virgin and I wish I was too.
Don't do it in a hurry, save it for someone special!

 

It was about a month after my fifteenth birthday. He's fourty four. Age is truly a western condition. It has little to do with maturity.

(And he wasn't a virgin just in case some of you thought so,hehe)

 

We i was 11 and she was 18.

on a train. Interesting. but i was way to young i have gone from one night stand to one night stand and i have had no emotional attachment. but i think just the way it goes.