I think anal is the worst pain I have ever felt. Comparable to childbirth. And yes, my husband was very slow and patient and considerate and loving.
There's an 'Anal Sex Starter Kit'. You can buy it online. The guy is supposed to only go in a quarter inch, once every 3 days. Every 3 days, he's supposed to go another quarter inch, until he gets it all the way in. It's supposed to take over 3 different occasions to get it all the way in. Use 'Anal Lube'.
At a quater inch a session I hope its going to take more than 3 sessions. maybe you meant to say 30 sessions? That would at least give you time for the average 7 inch stick.
No, i'd say it depends on the amount of lube you use I think it's good for girls who want to try anal, to practice inserting their fingers first. When they used to the feel of it (with lube) then they can give their partner a try doing the same. As long as you use plenty of lube and let the girl control the movements, as in let her move back towards you and take you in, only she knows how comfortable she is. When she is, she might let you do the thrusting but take your cue from her. There is no rush. My advice is to let the first time be an experiement, not a quest for orgasm. Above all else, have fun and practice safe sex.
Don't scare her ... for a man, anal sex is like having a shot at driving your favorite car for a day (for me, a BMW 740iL lol), and for a woman, my best discription would probably be... it's like getting a tattoo. It's pleasure and pain...after the intial pain (literally in most cases 2 mins of so if you relax) then the message begins. Try it! I can say it's not for everyone.
That's beautiful because I'm not like that...I'm a beast I go for blood...lol. j/k... to be honest I love it rough, however, I start off slow.