What would your wife think?

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My husband is bisexual. When we started dating, he had a very close friend that was gay, and I was suspicious about their relationship from the start. He denied any interaction for years. Several years into our marriage, he admitted they had a relationship. His friend had passed away by then.

Since then he started traveling for business (but not lately due to the pandemic). He has had some encounters with men while away on business the I am aware of, and I'm sure there are more I don't know about.

So, in conclusion, I am aware of his sexual interests, and tolerate them, but I am not enthused by it.

 

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Well, my husband's gay friend passed away about a year into our marriage. I could tell he was devastated at that time. So, he was active with him while we were dating, and into the first year of our marriage. I did tell him at one point that if his friend had lived, we likely would have divorced at some point.

He was likely inactive for the next ten years or so. Then he started traveling for business. Sporadically at first, then constantly later. He started to connect with men while away. He left a bit of a "bread crumb" trail (intentionally?) on our computer and the internet, and I found out about a couple of his liaisons. I said nothing for about a year, then confronted him about it one day. Obviously, he didn't deny it.

So, for as long has he was traveling, I assume there was some activity on his part. He tends to go to one place weekly for a while.

Since the start of the pandemic, he hasn't traveled at all.......

 

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So your wife had no idea you are bisexual? How long were you married when you admitted that to her?

How did you keep your boyfriend from her while you were married?

When I was dating my husband, he introduced me to his gay friend early on. We did occasionally socialized with him and other gay friends. The attraction between the two was somewhat obvious, and occasionally the friend made remarks to me indicating the they had been intimate together.

At time, I was traveling back home (I grew up in a different state) frequently on weekends. I always had the feeling they were having sleepovers together.

 

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Married for 20 years i often masturbated with out the wife knowing until she caught me doing it in a unlock bathroom door while at some friends home!
Her eye's popped out almost then she said have you ever had a man I answered "No" which was the truth then she said "why don't you" and closed the
door.! .................................

 

A week later I had my first bi experience with my wife knowing it! With out my wife's support I might have never turned bi. As always my wife supported me in any thing I ever did and this was no different! Not knowing how to start my wife asked me to join her and her lover and in our threesome i became bi....

 

It's gotten harder sent Craigslist shut down and covid19 hit. My first wife I was in the closet.i hated that. Next date i told her sure every once in a while I would love a MMF .i said I want to be upfront and honest . we did some 3somes before we married with men and women and full swaps. I marred her. I would show a naked pictures of my wife to men bi and some straight guys call my wife say get ready to get fucked were having a MMF tonight .

 

I'm hoping to dip a toe in the pool, my wife won't become involved. I could be open to many things but not her.
We talk about ffm threesome while fucking but it's all talk on her part.

There is so much to experience it's not always going to be accepted by the majority.

I like butt stuff , she's asked me if I was gay before we met . I don't know if that's the butt stuff or because I don't talk about any past, nothing to hide nothing to discuss. . I'm not interested in her past either, we have been together a long time she can't satisfy my curiosity but otherwise we work together to have a good life and leave something to the kids.

 

You said it work together.............no other!....

 

I'm sure many will echo that same statement.

If or when an opportunity may arise I might sieze the moment or get cold feet.

While I should not mess about without her approval it might never happen but if it does it's my life.bNo malois toward her but there may be some things I will never realise because I did put my family first.

I could hook up and regret it or even tell her in guilt or maybe I would satisfy that urge and be settled.

It's not an area we could communicate in, if she posed bringing a person into our bed for a session I would be open to suggestion to it and most things that might happen in a bi or straight threesome if mutually agreed, but that's not for everyone and I know my situation and why I've stayed.

 

My wife would eat pussy but she's been known to sneak off to the ladies house and have a threesome with the lady's husband . And she'd Bring the woman home you would have a threesome. Then the husband came over to my house and I said I'd suck your cock if you let me fuck your wife. My wife said go ahead honey I want to watch him you suck you. He sucked me off. My wife got down and suck him off then she French me . She's doing that before many times with my own cum but that was somebody else's. I never flinched. She said how is that baby. She said next time I want to watch you suck him off. They became regular fuck buddies and I learned to enjoy the taboos of a man and woman could offer.

 

Of by chance we were approached by a female or a male for a threesome and my wife initiated the suggestion we go with it that would be easy. We can see where it leads. I'm all open to allow her to play with a woman and eat her, be eaten, share my cock or lock the lady while I fuck my wife. I would like to enjoy another women if she agrees.
If we took a bloke into the equation then I would be waiting for approval or direction from her. I expect she would want to use his cock , would I have boundaries for her? Maybe but if we were fortunate to hook up with someone I expect she might want to suck his cock or take it in her pussy and I guess I would have to accept that is nothing to extraordinary. If she was to be suggestive that I engage with the man I would be obliging, maybe she would start by having him suck me off a bit , maybe see what she thinks of it. If she suggests she wants to see me suck cock and we are in it together then here is my chance. Would my wife want to watch me be fucked? I'm not sure she would but if we were there in a threesome maybe she would want to see a man take my ass for the first time, if she is turned on I think it would be the perfect opportunity to try something that I can't raise otherwise. The whole as scenario could be hot if she's into it and I get to see how I like it with her blessing.

Something I have not raised here is me penetrating the other man. I think if I was sexually involved with another man it's a logical step. Strangely I am eager to suck cock and be fucked if it goes down. I think I could fuck a bloke of it's on offer, I've ass fucked my wife and I think it's the mindset more than the physical satisfaction , it's more the erotic thoughts or something. But I agree it's tighter than pussy and keeps it interesting having anal as an option.
I think if I had multiple encounters with men it would be natural progression that I would fuck him if he wanted.

 

My wife is not thrilled that I openly admitted before we got married that I am bisexual. We tried "straight" non bi couples types swing/swap stuff, she even sucked cock with me one time, but admitted she only did all of that to keep me interested in her so we'd marry. We were never wired the same sexually. 25 years later, I still need a guy from time to time. Thats just the way it is....

 

She loves you!

 

Kept my bisexuality to myself until I met my second wife which is why my ex is now my ex, sex was boring and lack luster with my ex to vanilla and I am anything but Vanilla. If she wont consider trying new things you may be in the wrong relationship.