What should I do?

Again with the judging. Pathetic.

 

go for a walk or a snack or drive or something. get away from your computer and gain some perspective. I have to get back to my sweatshop.

 

i know a few people who have neglected going on training days...one guy has 4 kids with 3 different woman and he doesn't go...

i stay out of it. but do what you feel is right

 

I spent the weekend in a shack by a river with some really interesting and level headed people. I suppose my perspective has changed somewhat in that I understand that stupidity and close-mindedness are not necessarily inherent human traits. The downside of this is that I feel a little pain in my heart when I come across a person with an attitude like yours.

 

By all means go right ahead

Hotwater

 

this^

 

This isr response, followed by a message saying 'I gotta tell you something cool, call me' Oh how I would love to live int hat little world of ignorance...until it came crashing down on me:
It doesn't apply to his unit, according to him....and he says that if he doesn't respond to the IRR they can't do anything...
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I don't think a lot of people on here are really adults or have a good perspective on what a quality life is...so I'm not really valueing their opinion of me too much.

 

The last sentence of your post - totally agree - well said !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

see my above post as a response

 

I gotta go sew, so if you have issues with me, please just refer to post 48. If you have any information on what could happen to her husband or how I can bring it up so she 'gets it' as they might detain her husband and send him over sees now with the new policies and she has a very small child, please give me advice. I don't care about her friendship, I just care about that kid.

 

Ahh..I knew this thread couldn't go on to the sixth page without drama.

 

Anybody can sling around a bunch of generalized statements about 'people on here' but you're one of the only posters where concrete evidence is available of your pettiness, childishness and hypocrisy. Its written all over this thread.

You even tried to send us your friend's private response.

Urgh. You need a mirror. Stop making it about other people.

 

an other than honorable discharge is not that big of a deal..really..the only one that affects you later in life is a Bad Conduct discharge or a dishonorable..

 

You're enabling her, Facey. Pettiness is to be laughed at.

 

*points and laughs*

 

Please explaint he hypocrisy. I apologize that people aren't able to see teh severity of your car getting impounded when you have a child or ignoring the numerous letters and threats the reserves sends you.

 

Well,the thing is,is that it's honorable to care about other people and help when you can,but with some people --they are making their bed and they'll have to lie (lay?) in it.You just can't help some people and it looks like they don't want help.I understand your concern about the baby.Maybe it's just one of those things that they used to say-"it was meant to be".

 

the problem isn't them or the baby. i am sure they'll be fine. the problem is people need to mind their own damn business.

 

I agree that you should stay out of this, it's none of your business. If you really are concerned about the child and not just being nosey into something that isn't your deal then call CPS and explain. I think you just want to tell your "friend" how right you are.