What negative shit happened today?

Hmm. I've been doing lots of cardio and it seems my gut went down but I measure myself and grew an inch in each place since a few months ago. I swear something is wrong here....

 

I'm pretty sure that you can gain inches when you become more toned.

 

<3
sending strength to yoo

 

Did you measure at the same time of day? That may make a difference...

 

my toaster broke

toast now takes 15mins in the fakin oven

 

I was walking down a street in new york and this car launched a rock and hit me in the eye and now I have to wear an eye patch

 

Mothers day started, it's the busiest day of the year for the restaurant industry and it decided to start the day before, we had a really busy night and i get to go in and get the shit kicked out of me again tomorrow, woo hoo!!

 

I read this and was like , then I realized that I was being geocentric so I was like , but then I remembered that my mom is making me some birthday dinner tomorrow so I was like

On a more negative note, I just saw some locks on the way home that looked pretty rad, but then I noticed bits of wax and lint stuck to them...

 

My son threw the remote control for the tv at my face(on purpose) and it cut me under my eye. It took a lot of restraint to not lose it.

 

nothing really negative except that it was a relatively boring rainy day.... i would have liked to go for a walk.

 

gret, hugs man... that stinks.

chemi... do you have any metal coat hangers? Take one and fold it in half and put it on the element/range. Voila!! Cheap and instant toaster. Takes 2 minutes for a nice piece of toast.

I forgot to add my negative...

Yesterday I went bathing suit shopping and couldn't find anything I liked. I like a two piece suit where the bottoms are more like boy bottoms. But I couldn't find any like that with a liner in them... not a good idea. So I still don't have one. Booo... I may have to break down and shop at a proper expensive bathing suit shop to get what I want. Waaaah!

 

ugghhh

I'm having issues with my dad lately involving the way he raises his son, who is five. He works off a method of bribery, and gives the kid treats whether he is good or not. A loooooot of rewards. Like, if he sneaks into the candy jar (and steals a candy, and lies about it), after he tells him no, dad still lets him have the candy he took.
It drives me mad. My brother automatically assumes everything is his.

But it isn't my place really to say anything I don't think.


My dads philosophy is "If he isn't hurt, ignore him" and it isn't a very good one. He is allowed to run amok and tear shit up and get rewarded for it. ughhhhh


I'm just frustrated about it.

 

Personally, I think it is your place to say something.

 

I've played out all the possibly ways this conversation would go, and it is always something like me saying brothers discipline should be more structured, and that dad should enforce the rules he sets. Then dad would say "if he isn't bleeding, just ignore him" and then I'd explain why I thought that is shit parenting (in nicer words) and he would say that "he is just five, let him beeeeee, it is what five year olds do" and then I would possibly explode.

I don't want to come across as saying I could raise him better, that might be like a slap in the face to my dad.

 

Yes, children act like children. However encouraging shitty habits in their kids is NOT what responsible parents do. But I totally feel where you're coming from, I doubt he is man enough to take parenting advice from his daughter.

 

I had horse poo kicked at me by my own boyfriend. He thinks it's hillarious and I think I might stick leeches in his ear when he's sleeping.

 

if you don't i will

 

I turned into an emo kid last night on a cocktail of meds and booze. Also, my lymph nodes are so fucking swollen I think I might have cancer. My entire body aches. but whatever, I'm alive and my cat is sleeping on me so it's all good.

 

a childhood friend died today. second one this year, stace in jan and now hannah

 

sorry to hear that Samee. Always a shame when that happens. I remember I girl I knew from High school died a couple of years ago from a brain tumour. We weren't close but it's heartbreaking to see such young lives cut short