What makes you want to have sexual encounters with a black man?

I once met a doctor at a seminar. Besides being fit and attractive, he had this beautiful smile; when he smiled, his eyes smiled, too. He seemed to radiate kindness. He was beautiful.

 

Well,you certainly lived out a fantasy many while women had. Did you share all the juicy details with any else besides your husband?

The artist formerly known as Mistress Margaret.

 

It was a bit taboo, in the late 60's. Just a few years before , a black rock and roll star was jailed for kissing a white girl at a concert.

 

its even better when a white wife gets black bred

 

I was fucked by a very well-endowed black guy when I was in the military. It was an incredible experience.

 

I used to have a black friend that I miss even after a few years. My job made me move and I was not going to uproot her from her job, her friends and family, their friends.
One critical factor, I was going somewhere we knew she would have hated.

Off topic on your thread, I am not Mr Big, just on the (slightly in my opinion) bigger side of the average range, and she liked my size, she confirmed the size myth like I also observed at gyms.

 

I know I'm gonna get shit for this, but I think a lot of this is perpetuated by black men who want to make it with white women. I have been with, and talked to many white women over the course of my life and none of them ever expressed any interest in making it with a black man. Someone, probably a black man, has perpetuated a myth that only black men have big penises. When people come to the realization that this isn't true their curiosity of making it with a black man promptly diminishes!!

 

Much of this was brought from the days of slavery and the myths that came from it that black men were larger in size and more voracious in bed.
Statistically speaking African males are larger than other ethnicities but not by a huge margin. The myths and the porn industry make you think every black man has a 9 inch cock but that is not true.

Much of it is stereotyped

 

Assuming you are white, I don’t know of many white women that would openly express their desires to be with a black man.

 

I'm guessing you are black or a racist. Why wouldn't they express their desire to be with a black man, if they really wanted it?

 

I wish y'all could see the look on my face right now...

 

Unless you are that husband/boyfriend who wants to spice things up, it not going to come up in casual conversations. Please don’t get upset.

 

Here is my experience and thinking as a promiscuous white girl from Scandinavia. I have been with many men, mostly white and I find them to be wide ranges of shapes and sizes. A few small, a few large and many in the middle. I have not been with as many black men, but do find the range more larger than average including the biggest I have ever had!

Maybe some other reasons to think about size?

1) Ethnic groups within races: in the U.S., which is a blend of many white ethnicities (English, French, Italian, Spanish, etc), I felt like the average penis was a little smaller when I lived there for university than from what I experience in Scandinavia and Northern Europe. Maybe that is the case with black men too? In America perhaps much blending over several centuries from different African ethnicities and maybe mixed with white ethnicities over time perhaps might result in a lower blended average? I note that most of my experience with black men has been from Somali immigrants and when I have spent time working in Nigeria and like I said, I found them to generally be larger than what I consider an average cock or penis.

2) The impact of promiscuity: White men in general (other than Norwegians), don’t usually have a legend to uphold based on race when they are out on the hunt. But perhaps a Black man trying to be promiscuous in a white setting is more likely to advertise himself if he has the large package that lives up to the stereotype? If he has just an average or less penis, maybe the black man would feel somewhat inferior if he wasn’t as big or bigger than the white guys showing up for a gangbang, for instance?

Sorry, when subjects get this complex, my English does not describe my thoughts exactly, so hope no one gets offended! One parting comment is that I do definitely seek out black men when I have the opportunity, and i have a session once a month with some Somali men and it is very filling!

 

The honest truth for me is that I was genuinely curious and wanted to try dating outside my own race. I met this wonderful black guy who only wanted to date white men. We dated and quickly found that we had deep feelings for each other. We dated and even got engaged with marriage plans just to show how much we loved each other…