What'dya mean? Like chemistry? Chemistry's easy to help along. A little ambiance here, touch her there, whisper dirty things to her during your lit class. chemistry is not that hard to figure out. Now if you're talking about a deep connection with someone, that's a lot harder to find.
I give frustrated guys both excellent and terrible advice... I have a terrible sense of humor. It's up to them to sort it out.
common experiences is what makes my boys and i click awesome. we all went through freshman year together...then we grew closer over the years. we all do different ridiculous things, so it just makes it awesome when were all together it it all comes out...
Some people I click with have the worst musical tastes. Some people I click with have different ideals. Some people I click with dress terrible (although they probably say that about me). Etc. etc. ad infinitum. So in other words, people click randomly.
i have this theory-- since you cannot create or destroy matter (unless, of course, you use cold fusion, but lets leave that out for this equation) everything that is here now has always been here. so maybe we are attracted to certain people because our matter was together at one point-- for instance, we were part of the same tree, rock, whatever...but it is the stuff that makes us up that draws us together. everyone you meet, you see, is somehow connected. the stranger on the street was part of an orange tree in the same grove as you and you two simply HAD to cross paths. its a science thing.........................
Doesn't hold water for me. That would mean everyone is attracted to everyone else. And that's definitely not the case.
Has anybody here read Thomas Berger's "Best Friends." I wouldn't recommend many books above it on the issue of intimacy. I literally cried reading the thing.
no, it wouldn't. it would mean that only people whose matter you had come in contact with would cross your path. for instance- everyone i see in any given day was a rock in the field as me at some point-- crossing their path is inevitable. but only people whose matter were actually part of the same rock as me would be a source of attraction for me. and i am NOT refering to sexual or romantic attraction here.
Honey, read up on your physics. All the matter in the universe comes from one source...and that source went BIG...BANG! I'm breathing air that's been in the lungs of Africans, and Australians as we speak. The universe is a promiscuous machine indeed. We are all interrelated and exchanging heterogeneous matter at all times. Sorry, but you're going to have to come up with something a little less outside.