Well for my mothers marriage it was the men coming in and out of her bedroom.iv never been married because i find the concept scary because of the trusting part.iv been proposed to several times but it wasnt right.I think marriages dont have one thing that kills them i think its a combo of little things and when somthing like cheating comes up well it breaks the last straw sending all of the past even further.You can be with someone 3 years through love,loss,fear,joy and wealth.family vactoins,vactoins alone then one day its over your strangers again wandering our world without eachother.
If one spouse has to tell the other, "It's not a competition..." it's not going to work. Call 1-800-NOFAULT to make that appointment for a divorce. Being browbeaten as a kinky kind of thing is one thing; to be treated like you have little or no value in the marriage? Nothing you do is good enough or things you can do like you have been doing them for years are all being done wrong or not the way they want it done. 1-800-NOFAULT. If she ever says to you, "You're not my father!" dial that number and you might as well dial it if she ever asks you, "Is that all you think about?" If he comes home from work and bitches you out because his dinner isn't on the table or you're two minutes late putting in on the table? 1-800-NOFAULT and they have operators on duty 24/7/365 with our staff of lawyers ready to assist you. If either spouse is behaving like it's the 1930s, 40s, or 50s, well, you know the number because if you don't call it, it's very damned likely you're going to regret it. I need more coffee...