What is it about a man that turns you on?

You are just too kind!

 

I don't know. There are so many different qualities that each individual man posses that I can find attractive. I find kindnes and the ability to have compassion and the ability to listen extremly attractive. I like a man who has a quiet confidence even one is a bit shy. I HATE for the most part men who feel the need to be too aggressive ("I am man, hear me roar") or overbearing. I also don't like men who treat women like property( ie. something to fight over with another man or something to be protected from other people - UhUm I can handel myself thank you!!!!). I like earthy and natural kind of men. I find guys who are fun and who wear eye liner and who are musicians really really cute and adorable and I would date them - but thier is just "something" just more like drawing and sensual and intoxicating and substantial about a man who is earthy (I don't know how to explain what I find earthy lol) - not nessicarly a hippie or with dreds - but just natural....I don't know how to explain it. Who feels comfterable in his own skin.

The one * physical* quality that I find most attractive on a man is his torso. There is just something about a man's rib cage that turns me on lol. I don't know if that is weird or what but even just looking at a torso under clothing I find it extremly sexy. I also like men who have a "bit" of meat on them. Typically I don't find obese, overly thin or(if your thinner then me then it's a no-go), overly muscular men attractive. Some lean muscle might be nice - and a nice sight chest/torso is a plus because I find that extremly attractive - but those things are not nessicarly needed for me to be attracted to someone. For me I am not physically attracted to someone (could be the "sexiest" man in the world) until AFTER I am already emotionally connected and emotionally attracted to them. By that point I find just about everything about them sexy in some way ;p

 

Eyes and smile. If a guy has thin lips it is a turn off.

 

Gotta have a nice smile/good teeth.

 

Muscles! Tattoos and peircings are hot too.:drool:

 

I have something with that "tough bad boy" type... I don't know what it is... just one of those things. My favorite things are lips and eyes...

 

Yea.. I love that too.. I guess it's kinda like a rebel thing or something... but it's hot.

 

hands and eyes

 

i love guys with long hair... dark mysterious eyes. god i love nice eyes

 

eyes

 

You've got a run in your stockings, dear.

 

Their cleanliness, humor and everything else about them ... *lost my train of thought * pffft*

 

i don't really get turned on by men in general, but my boyfriend does turn me on so much!! he's just so handsome, his face is very masculine, his bone hips are just too lovely! his arms are strong and his body hair is just so fun to play with!! He's just so dreamy...

 

physical attributes change, it's really all realitive...yeah long hair is gorgeous, dreads gorgeous, but at the same time some men just look so foxy with short hair, green eyes mmmhmmm but everyones eyes are so beautiful in their own way, i think what turns me on by men is how they make me feel, either with the way they touch me, the way they talk to me, the way they can get inside my mind...the man that gets inside my mind is the one that will forever be remembered...physicalities and a physical realtionship is great, but honestly i think the best sex i've ever had was with a man that totally had control over me in a more than a physical sense

i've been attracted to so many different men with so many different physical attributes
i think pheromones are prolly what actually determines who i find attractive

 

i agree totaly with everything you said. that totaly applies to me and all the guys who currently occupy my mind

 

Very tall and very thin. With dark skin. Indian or middle eastern is great.

 

mmmm...men of middle eastern decent are yummy

 

tan brn eyes are beautiful so are wolves eyes as well

 

My boyfriend encompasses everything that I find sexy in a guy (I'm so lucky)
Nice thick dark beard
Gorgeous green eyes
Strong jaw and chin
Tattoos
Tall
Hairy chest (not too much!)
Strong everything
Everything!

 

some things about him that turn me on-
how he says exactly what im thinking before i get to
the way he wakes me up in the morning
his hair
his sense of humor - no one can make me laugh like he can
everything about his face and body
how perfect he is without even trying
the way he kisses all over my body
the hair on his chest (nothing crazy like sean connery although i tease him about it)
his hands..they truely work wonders
his voice - his accent
gahh ill limit my list to this so i dont go on forever