ARGH. I can't put it all into words, but just the love of fuck everyone needs to just forget about it, yes the 'person who can't be named' may have stepped the line on many occasions, but the information he has provided is invaluable I can think of just as many occasions when he has experienced personal attacks off other members, that are happy to dish out the insults.. It actually is depressing coming here, I used to love reading this forum, now it just sour mess of hate, and bad vibes. Im taking time out from this place. Speak to you all soon *hug*
For the record, the only problem I have with SE is the fact that not all of his information is invaluable or legitimate. He knows his shit about neglect dreads but he can not speak for folks who have used other methods with positive results. Even after he has been proven wrong on several issues he doesn't give up dishing out inaccurate information in other threads to different newbs.