What does it feel like for a women to have an ORGASM ?

Gentle Ben - Since men and women are derived from the same fetus, depending on whether they have X or Y chromosomes, I (as a male) believe that the female orgasm is not that different than the male, except that there is no feeling of ejaculating a fluid during orgasm (unless a woman squirts). And males usually have 6-8 ejaculations and penile contractions during their orgasms, and female orgasms can be more variable ( although both have orgasms which take place 0.8 seconds apart). And females can come back with another set of orgasms much sooner than men (lucky ladies!).

 

yea women can stay at the peak right before an orgasm and have multiple orgasms. i cant believe that you havnt just searched google for this stuff man its not that hard to find. i think that cutted pretty much summed it up its gotta be similar to a males orgasm.

 

Where can you find a explicit description of the female orgasm ?

 

Actually I think what you have written is very true, in fact I would go as far as saying, that the clitoris is just a small penis, and the clitoral hood is or becomes the foreskin on the male.

It would be interesting to know if men are capable of something like an orgasm like a women is capable of ?

I think the majority of men are just too eager to finish sex and don't go any further than just quick ejaculation.

I think they are just cheating themselves of a better experience.

I would like any men who are reading this to try something different this weekend ....

For those who have some idea of what foreplay is, I would like them to spend at least one hour on foreplay.

I would like to see how much difference it would make.

I think the important things is don't be in a hurry, and be very gentle and slow with the foreplay.

I think to some extent you need to have soft hands, so this could be a problem if your hands are dry and cracked.

Experiment and see what you can get out of it.

I'm sure women won't complain.

 

Try "edging' - bringing yourself up to the edge of orgasm, and then letting it go down a little, and then back up. Do this for a half hour or so and then let it go. The orgasm will be powerful.

 

You mean for me, not my partner ?

 

lol, yes. i may be only 15, but i do that all the time. It helps your stamina, and control over how you orgasm. Sometimes after about 30 minutes it becomes to pleasurable, and i have to cum or i will explode. its really interesting, cause the orgasm is very intence. hope that helped

 

Hey you gotta get your self a partner real soon and experience that "total package" man.

 

sorry double post

 

i have asked my bf what is like when he has his cock inside of me, and he cant answer. its like, i think some guys may have trouble describing what its like comeing, and thats the same for girls. its a very intense feeling. something that makes you want to scream from pleasure

 

Well when I think about it, that is true, the feeling of ejaculation is difficult to describe.









I could describe the symptoms though.






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As I have here.


OK just in case you haven't read this from the other post, this is what it is like for a guy.
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Many years ago lived in big old weatherboard house with seven bedrooms that were ocupied by three flate mates, me, a girl, and another guy.
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I didn't really know Racheal that well, anyway one evening she came home from work while I was cooking a meal, that I decided to share with her, we talked over the meal, and talked some more.​

Rachael was small and petite about 20 years old I guess with fine blond hair, narrow hips and small pert breasts.


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... later we decided to go into her bedroom and talk, this was no big deal as we often talked with the doors to our rooms left open, the room was really cold and musty with only a few of her personel belongings, a small bras statue of buda with fragrent Myrah incense sticks stiking out of it like rabbit ears, a thin foam mattress for a bed in the middle of the room, and a big "David Bowie" poster on the wall.

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One topic lead into another that lead into relationships and sex, ... ( to cut a long story short ) I guess we got aroused and sexually curious, I couldn't wait to get my clothes off and have her !!!
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The room was so damn cold, I asked her if we could get under the doona to keep warm ...
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It wasn't long before we were naked, I kissed her wide open mouth and our tongues became entangled like two snakes making love, she really new how to kiss passionately and it was really stirring me up and my cock started growning I started caressing her all over in the dark cold room, lit only by moonlight streaming through these ornate high windows.
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Apart from the occasional murmur and the sound of us kissing and the rustle of bed clothes it was quiet.
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I must of caressed her body with my hands for hours on end ( I can tell you my arms and shoulders were aching so much I would switch over from time to time), she turned around and started licking my scrotum whilst straddling me on all fours in the 69 position,( me underneath ) which initially I found quite shocking albeit very erotic and some what irresistable.
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I kept caressing her inner thighs, the backs, the front and the sides of her legs, her torso, upper and lower back, her neck, running my fingers through her fine gold hair and over her tiny shell like ears ...
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Ocassinally I nibbled her neck and watched the waves of goose bumps appear on her neck and on her breasts and her nipples stood up erect !( mmmm that looked so erotic )

The hours went by ... and the caressing and kissing continued, I kept running my fingers through her hair and ever so gently tickling her neck and watching the waves of goosebumps on her torso. My hands gliding over her breasts like the wings of a butterfly, and along the edge of her ribcage and down her abdomen to her now soaking wet vulva and vaginal opening ...

Gradually her skin was getting dank and I noticed sweat above her top lip, her whole body was getting noticably sweaty ...

Later ...

Too my amazement I looked up at her and noticed just how wet our bodies where, we were totally drenched in sweat from head to toe, our hair was sopping wet it was like we had just hopped out of the shower without drying ourself, I remember reaching down with both of my hands either side of her torso and cupping my hands together over her back and dragging them from her buttocks (lower back) to her shoulders and skimming the water off - and it spilling over and splashing onto my face.(gezez I thought !!)

She turned around and we were face to face and I remember running my hands up the back of her legs and over her puffy dripping wet vulva as I sucked her turgid nipples with my lips.

I could feel her skin shiver with excitement as i continuously caressed and teased it. I pulled her down onto me and was amazed when she slid up and down on our slippery wet toros with apparent ease.

I could hardly believe how wet she was, as I glided my penis slowly into her slippery wet vagina and started to slide her up and down on my slippery wet torso.

I heard a puff of air come out of her vagina all( what some people refer to as a fanny fart) I could feel her vaginal barrel starting to contract around my hard pen*s and I could feel the end of her vagina barrel start to balloon out (it felt like my pen*s was in a wet chamber with only the knob exposed) and initially it really freaked me out ( like my body had suddenly realised that it was out of air), I decided in my mind to just go with it.

I could no longer withdraw my pen*s so easily without it feeling intensely pleasurable, I remember thrashing my head from side to side with the almost unbearable pleasure, at that point she slightly arched her back, Her vaginal barrel went into spasmodic contractions, which sent me thru the roof - (It was like waking from a scary dream but this wasn't scary )OMG the pleasure caused by the tight constriction around my pen*s, and my cock thrusing in and out, was more than I could bear so much so that I shot my entire load of ejaculate into her !!!

I would go as far as saying the feeling was overwhelming - I have no recollection of how long this lasted for, later after the the waves of vaginal contractions weakend and gently subsided I felt a strange affinity with her,an incredible feeling of intimacy and closeness that I must say I have never felt before ( this must be the oxytocin and vasopressin kicking in !!!). When I was inside her the feeling I had was like we were one some how fused together our souls locked into each other, this may sound ridiculous but that is how it was, I would even go as far as saying it was like some strange out of body experience.

I noticed her racing (pounding) heartbeat started to subside as did her hyper-ventilating and the waves of vaginal barrel contractions around my now flaccid pen*s.

Suddenly it was so quiet and peaceful, you could of heard a pin drop, it was like a wild storm that had suddenly cleared revealing a black sky with sparkling distant stars and a cool gentle breeze, and I remember looking into her glassy dialted eyes and at her wet face and hair and thinking just how amazing it was !!!

In the cold night air and the moonlight which was shining in through the high window, I couldn't help feel and wonderful contentment and strange feeling of happiness.

The in the background I noticed small birds chirping and the sun starting to come up, and realised it was morning to my astonishment !

Then it occured to me that we had gone all night, somehow 9+ hours had "some how" slipped away.

The definitive orgamsic experience.
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This basically is what I want to know, is real orgasm that common ?
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And what is going on, this is the 21st century surely there is something wrong when we don't even know how to enjoy sex properly.
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I read through these threads about issues about lack of orgasm and lots of sexual problems.
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Has sex become the last bastion that commerce has finally infiltrated ?
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OK again, there must be some one that can give a clearer picture of what orgasm is like from a women.

 

you get a rush..its very intense when the feeling strikes its like your pussy is throbbing with pleasure you breating dus increse and after you feel so relaxed itd a great feeling...sorry i havtn described in as much detail..im a bit busy atm but if any one wants a very detailed description just PM me..xxxxx

 

When I started masturbating when I was a little girl (starting about 5), this sweet pleasure would keep going up and up until it got so strong I couldn't take it-at that point all I could do was moan one long moan from the intense pleasure in my clit and crotch area and close my eyes real tight....

After I went into puberty, (about 12), after the pleasure became really unbearably intense in my clit/crotch area (just like it did when I was younger), contractions in my vagina started that went in rhythm...that made me moan in rhythm with them...it's still that way.....

 

he's just lookin' for wank material girls.

 

Gee if that is my intent, I had better not blink, because it's just a mere two or three lines of text !!

LOL !!!

Is this the pinnicle of male erotica ?

I don't think so, what I'm interested to know is your reason for writing what you have ?

Jealousy ?

Penis envy ? LOL !!!!

Trauma at an early age that has left you hating men ?

 

omg you're so silly! :tongue:

 

I read a book years ago "Masters and Johnsons - Human Sexual Response", they wrote about primary and secondary sexual dysfunction, primary meaning less than ideal sexual stimulus, (in laymens terms) sloppy, ignorant and inadequate foreplay which manifest itself as either - dyspareunia and I believe in a worse case scenario -vaginismus.

When a females vagina is not wet enough because the guy is insensitve, arrogant, or ignorant.

It could also be caused by an early negative childhood experience like molestation or rape, or even negative connotations associated with sex for example strict religious upbringing, or "don't touch down there because you might really enjoy it and I've never had an orgasm so you can't either" it's these kinds of experiences or that kind of parental guidence that causes problems, and robs women of (and men) complete sexual freedom and fullfillment.

TBC ...

 

true, but it also robs women of complete sexual freedom and fullfillment when their sex partners have preconceived notions of exactly how the woman should look, act and sound when they're orgasming. for example, guys exposed to a lot of porn come to the natural sex act with some pretty unrealistic expectations sometimes.

 

Yes I think I know what you mean is this an example ?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RDADTMqDDL8

Some guys are just brain dead, not a lot you can do about that, except find some one that is sensitive, inteligent and educated.

It seems there are a lot of bisexual and lesbian women out there, I guess a women understands a women needs and what to do ...

I have seen heaps of threads like "my boyfriend looks at porn ..." so I think I understand what you mean.

It works the other way to ...

 

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Can any women here tell me whether they got really drenched in sweat while they were having an orgasm ?
 
And please be honest.
 
When I say wet, I mean wet, drenched from head to foot, in sweat like worse than having a sauna for an hour.
 
Could you read my post on page 10 (if you have not already done so) and tell me if you have ever experienced something like this ...
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http://www.hipforums.com/forums/showthread.phpt=265511&page=10&pp=10

I'm specifically looking for an experience like this one.

Also I'm very curious to know why one gets "sensitive" at certain times during foreplay or fellatio/cunnilingus, what I mean is sometimes you can be with a partner and the stimulous is just too great, and then at other times its OK - do other people experience this also ?

Sometimes women say that there clitoris is too sensitive, so I'm getting the feeling that both women and men experience the same thing, or is it that the clitoris is getting sore from friction caused by either too much pressure, or repeated pressure over a period of time ?

A women can be felating her mans penis and then suddenly the stimulous is so intense that you can't bare the stimulous, and pull away ...

So is there consensous on this theory ?