What does it feel like for a women to have an ORGASM ?

Thanks for your reply, very interesting to read about what its like for a female.

For a guy its was an amazing experience to say the very least.

Be interesting to know why one goes into this weird out of body or blackout after a womens orgasm, thats the part I cannot understand what happened to this very day.

 

Ladies, I am wondering about the moaning thing... my wife seems to enjoy sex as much as ever, but she has become very quiet in the last couple of years. Does this means she is not having orgasms? Most of the time she grabs me and clenches her fists and her teeth during sex, and holds any noise inside, like you might do if you are trying to break open a locked door or twist off that lid stuck too tight on a jar. This may be helping her to focus, and bring more intensity to the moment. She wants it fast and hard, or not at all. What are your thoughts? Is she trying too hard to have multiple Os? Often I wonder if she ought to be more relaxed. I am curious, but not complaining!!

 

To doug tx

Do you have children? or other people living with you now that weren't living with you the last couple of years? If so and your children are older she may feel inhibited making noise now because your kids will know what you are doing.

Sugarplumplum

 

I think we all learn what we think the other partner wants, or thinks the other partner wants - I guess we never really know how to make love properly.

I think I just did what felt good not what I thought might feel good.

When you make love you make noise but Its not something you're doing because you think its what you do in bed.

When I experienced a womens orgasm there wasn't much moaning or noise apart from the normal breathing that is caused by increased heartbeat which is very high just before orgasm 200 + beats or whatever per minute.

As for moaning there wasn't any that I can remember.

I think sugerplum is correct she might be concerned about what the kids think.

 

Come on don't let gentleness, love and orgasm die - try harder to be more sensitive and careing - why not ?

Racing to ejaculation is not the best of the best, its the best of the least.

Self gratifaction can be good, but not its not like when some one else doing it for you and they do it well.

Beyond ejaculation is a higher plauteu of sexual pleasure that only the very special people experience that have taken the time to explore what is beyond the first gate ...

 

Caressing a women as gentlly as you can is the key to orgasm, being gentle, being quiet, over a very long time.

Kiss her mouth really gently and slowly.

Kiss her around the ears again really slowly and gently.

Let your hands glide over her body like a warm breeze over the desert.

Circling your hands over her body everywhere is a place to explore never lingering in places for too long

Keep that going for hours even if she falls asleep ...

Just keep doing it and doing it relentlessly ...

She;s soaking wet just keep caressing her ...

Build the tension in her body

Keep going like that for hours if need be never thinking of your own aching balls

Just keep doing it ....

 

Everyones is different... With mine i begin breathing faster and moaning and then waves of pleasure go through my whole body, lasting about 20 seconds to up to a minute.
Ater having it i like to just lay there and enjoy how relaxed my body is, sometimes massaging my breasts

 

It's like going to Macys, on a half off sale day, just how do you describe an orgasm ?????

 

You describe it with words, wonderful words and experience.

Lovers embraced, sweating bodies as if in a sauna for too long.

Wet hair, wet bodies, very wet ... , your heart beating faster than you thought possible like a little drum inside your chest.

I can only describe it from my own experience.

When your inside the woman her vaginal barrel muscles tighten and rythmically contracts spasmodically i think she loses total control of her body, that contraction of the vaginal barrel sends you into the best pleasure I have ever experienced.

I can't remember what happened just after my own ejaculation it was almost like some weird out of body experience i think I must have blacked out or there was a moment that I cannot account for.

After this you get the most wonderful experience of contentment, inner peace, totally relaxed, and a powerful bonding with the partner your with.

Its a really amazing moment in ones life, a moment that is life changing, you can't look at life the same anymore.

 

Sorry I'm not female.

Moaning I think is more about what you see in the movies, in real orgasm I don't think it is like this.

 

I feel a warm intensity over my entire body. a feeling like a quick and temporary immobility, followed by a very intense, pulsating (opening/closing) of my entire vaginal area. My breathing may stop or become very shallow for im to enthralled in the orgasm to do much else. My heart rate will race however, leaving me flustered and at times thirsty. the build up is a very strong feeling of intensity, like a " i hvae to reach this climax or i fail feeling." and then afterwards, i feel lethargic, calm and tranquil. I feel like i could sleep for hours, or like i just smoked the best weed/ or have been up on my feet for 48 hrs. straight and just layed down for the first time. If shes tellingthe truth, she wont be looking at you for extreme pillow talk afterwards, she'll be to tired. and you should feel the pulsating on your member, finger, mouth, whatever! or see it if shes masturbating. I always sya, the same way we know you have cum is the same way you will know. its noticable.
the only thing i left out is the wetness level will double or triple.

 

Infarred1119 - wow, thanks for firstly posting !!

... I was just re-reading the last bit of your response, and thinking back to my own experience, which seems so long ago now, I can't get over how you feel afterwards, its was so quiet and cold that night but I felt as bright as a spark.

Couldn't help the feeling of amazment not only at the realisation of my girlfriends orgasm but also the steam coming off us in the cold winter air. LOL

Again thanks for replying.

GB.

 

I'd love to here from more ladys and their orgasmic experiences !!!

 

Oops, double post-don't know what happened

 

That strong, sweet feeling that's centered in my clit at one point begins to rise and rise (almost, almost) and continues to go up and up until it reaches a certain point where it can't go any higher-this is where the orgasm actually begins-when the feeling has gone up so far that it won't go any farther (at this point my clit is so swollen and pleasurable that it feels like it will burst), my legs clamp tightly together, my eyes involuntarily shut, and I begin to scream uncontrollably. Then finally the feeling begins to slowly go down (very disappointing) after the pleasure peaked for about 10 seconds-I rest for just a little, then start the whole process of stimulating my clit again until I come so many times that I'm worn out

 

Thanks for posting.

Can I ask have you ever felt like you were holding on and not wanting to let go ?

I remember as a guy holding on - a feeling of fear of the unknow, have you ever felt like that or did you ever feel like that ?

I'd like to ask you more just so tired tonight.

 

Mei's hot!

 

How many women sweat profusely when they have an orgasm ?

When I say profusely I mean the sweat is really is pouring off them ?

This is another sign of true orgasm.

 

I'd be very keen to hear from any women that have had an orgasm where they were sweating profusely!!!

Could any women who have experience this please post.

GB.

 

hmmm no women or girl so far has sweated profusely.