What does it feel like for a women to have an ORGASM ?

Yes, exactly the same with me. My pelvic area, or sometimes my upper body also, during the extremely high pleasure during the orgasm, jerks in this exact rhythm just like a guy's dick does as it ejaculates. I've always thought this was very interesting.

Before the orgasm, the pleasure in my clitoris and crotch area gradually increases until it's so strong that I can't stand it-there's one exact point when I know that the orgasm will start and the regular level of pleasure will end. I can also regulate exactly when this will happen, as I achieve almost all my orgasms from masturbation (except recently when my husband finally began eating me to orgas occassionally).

Before the orgasm, my clit continues to swell and ache-before the climax, my legs tense up and go tightly together, so tight that they hurt and cramp-when the orgasm pleasure starts, sometimes my head moves forward and jerks together with my pelvis. My eyes shut very thight and I moan continually as long as the pleasure is at orgasm level. Then as the pleasure starts to subside (maybe the peak goes on for 5, 10, sometimes 15 seconds) then my body begins to relax, and I catch my breath.

 

I also wanted to mention that when I am about to orgasm, my nipples become very hard and I almost always develop a blotchy red rash over my chest, breasts, and neck. I usually break out in a sweat, and sometimes, if I'm on top of my husband, I even drip sweat on him because I'm so wet.

 

Give it a go one lovely warm and peaceful day.

 

OK.

Thanks.

 

I'm jealous !

 

:cheers2: WOW !! Now this really is exactly what I'm looking for, if what you say is true you are truelly one of the fortunate ones that has had a genuine orgasm.

I'm getting the feeling that from most of the posts here and my own experince it is indeed very rare to have an orgasm.

Why do you think you are able to have an orgasm when so many fail to reach that apex ?

Is there something you could share with us ?

From my own experience you definatly have to go bare back, foreplay is a factor as is the amount of time ones spend on foreplay.

The time of month may have been a factor but maybe not ?

Room temp is not a factor, in fact it was freezing cold.

Her dominating me may also have been a factor ?

Tell me more ...

 

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Well, I don't actually have an orgasm from thrusting alone-I have to rub my clitoris to get over the edge and have an orgasm. Nevertheless, they are quite intense.

And, other womens' orgasms are just as real as mine-just different.

 

Can't pm you as your messages are full. I'll be in Geneva from July 12-18 and beyond.

 

Xiaoyan -- wanted to applaud you for your comment. I find that suggesting otherwise is at the very least disrespectful and rather demeaning. As a guy, it never seems like I could as effectively say anything as a woman could in that regard. So, even though it was just one sentence -- thanks for standing upand saying that. Glad someone out there has the sense and decency to do so, and articulately at that.

 

'm sorry that I offended you, I guess it is true if I was honest with you, that I to get depressed at times, but what can one do ?

I could sit in my own misery and try to get peoples sympathy, at the end of the day very few really give a ....

I was depressed about my missing toe until I met a guy that had no leg.

After awhile depression gets very boring and one starts to get sick of ones own cr@p.

Your own actions can make you happy, it really depends on what is making you un-happy ?

Anti-depressants are not the answer, you have to deal with the real cause of your depression.

I made myself feel better, buy changing my habits.

I gave up smoking, drinking, gambling and junk food.

I realised what was making me unhappy and did things that made me feel better.

Take action.

 

Aww, thanks...I never thought of myself as articulate...thank you....besides, I was just telling it the way it is....

 

I was thinking about the affects of pornography on people, would most people agree that it has had an affect on how we as human beings make love to each other ?

If it has, has that affect been detrimental to women and or men ?

Are we being conned, has sex now become the last bastion that commerce has finally infiltrated ?

Do so called sex aids really help women achieve orgasm, or is it failing to achieve what it claims to achieve ?

Does pornography degrade men and women ?

 

I think that needs to be it's own thread

 

That's The Best Description Possible.

 

All things considered your probably right.

 

Agreed.

 

Nothing comes easy, despite most peoples attempts at looking for shortcuts to orgasm.

I guess its like anything in your life, nothing comes easy.

It's hard work, and then the reward.

 

Well I have been looking for an experience comparable to what I once experienced and must say I'm genuinely surprised, that very few if any seem to have experienced what I once did, I guess there are very few that are prepared to spend as much time on their partners as I did or do.

I guess I should not be too hard on people as having marathon sex is no easy feat.

In hindsight, I think I met a special person and we seemed to connect, maybe that is why we worked so well together.

I have thought very hard about what makes the difference between good sex and incredible sex.

rapport is definatley a factor.
going bareback (without a condom)
no light in the room (men and women feel more inhibited)
end of the month moonlight night (women seem to be horniest then)
prolonged effective foreplay up to 7+ hours
getting caught may have been a factor (but then again maybe not)

I don't think love was really a factor, but maybe kindness and sensitivity is or was.
It was a very cold room so when they say you should have ideal settings its bullshit.

 

Another little gem.

 

Ok I haven't given up on womens orgasm, there has to be someone some where that has had a truelly mind blowing genuine orgasm.

Come on girls !!!