What do you think?

I think it's great that you THINK you're ready to be a mother, but I honestly don't think that you are. Before it's too late, go have the morning after pill.

 

I'd say your chances are getting better by the minute.

 

Sweety, I understand where you are coming from in not wanting to interrupt a natural function. However, you need to look at all the aspects of your life and determine if you are in a spot of readiness to bring a child into this world.

Do you have a job?
Do you have healthcare?
Do you have a place to live?
Are you completely self-sufficient?
Will the father be around?
Does that even matter?
Will you have a loving support system for yourself and your child?

If the answer to any of these questions is NO, then reconsider it. Get Emergency contraception. It is no different than birth control. It's just an emergency barrier.

If you have any questions about your choices, go to the link on my signature. They are a group associated with planned parenthood.

I'm not going to force my opinion on you...But I came into this world as a "condom baby". My mom decided to keep me as her own. My life was hard. I don't resent my mother, but I sometimes wish that she had had me at a different time in her life. Maybe both of our lives would have been more happy and less stressed.

Don't think of this with rose-tinted glasses on! This affects more than yourself!

Holly

 

Well I respect your opinion, thank you.
...and I'm not getting the morning after pill.

 

...I agree

 

I still will not be taking a morning after pill....

 

...I agree

 

You still didn't answer my questions.

Holly
(Praying that you aren't pregnant.)

 

so have you done a pregnancy test or gone to the doctor for an std test yet? whats the official update?

 

I haven't taken any test at all.

 

you'll want to get an std test if the condom broke, if he is infected with anything its always easier to get rid of, and does less damage when you catch it early. besides if you are pregnant and you're having a kid, you don't want to be fighting off an std at the same time...

 

Alright enough of this...she doesnt want to take the pill end of story. I cant see how anyone can say 90% chance of being pregnant without knowing at what point in her cycle she is at. Was the condom spermicide coated? Because this would be a big factor. Getting a load of cum doesnt make you pregnant, it makes it possible but like i said the odds are determined mainly by the point in your cycle.

 

you're a lil late on that one buddy, it appears everyone already has stopped, i know i have, she's made up her mind, im just trying to look out for her best interests in other terms beyond the pregnancy.

 

you may not be scared of getting pregnant but what about your future? like most of the other people on this board have said, the chances are pretty darn good (anyone who has been put through sex-ed class will have a good insight..however sperm in vagina = sperm in egg = baby is pretty much common sense) you should research the morning after pill and see what your options are... best of luck my friend!

 

I'm gonna call her bluff.

Situation was fake.

 

I got my wife pregnant when I was 17, she was 18.

 

The condom was not spermicidally lubricated.
I have no idea what "point" in my cycle I'm at. last month I think I had my period around the 26th or 27th and it always starts later than the month before. I forget what the date of my thread-starter was, but that's the date the condom broke. Can you tell me anything?

 

Thanks.

 

What about my future?
I don't know if his sperm got in my vagina. There was a lot of it around it, but not inside. well, maybe inside, that's what I don't know. but I do know that a lot was on my thigh/butt.
Once again, the morning after pill is no option.

 

You posted on the 19th (it says so on the post). Every woman is different, but on average, you ovulate (release an egg) approximately 15 days after the first day of your period. This is when you are most fertile, and it gradually deminishes as you get closer to your period. PLEASE educate yourself. You should not be having sex if you don't know how to take care of yourself in this manner. I personally feel you are being too idealistic about becoming a parent--have you told the guy of the possibility? How does he feel about it?