Well, there isn't an outpouring of responses (yet) but it's a subject worth consideration. Let me preface what I have say with the comment that I might have different tastes than other men. I prefer slow, soft lovemaking as opposed to the rough-and-tumble sex. I'm prone to romantic thoughts and extended seduction. Anyway, here are a few specifics: == tickle his balls, especially during the sex act. == believe it or not, men's nipples can be pretty sensitive; kiss/lick them as you would want him to do yours; this has the added benefit of letting him know what you like. == kissing his neck and ears are always a turn-on. == give him a bath and, even, serve him dinner there; you could serve yourself as dessert. == a full body massage is hot. == what about a manicure? == an ice cube blowjob (make the inside of your mouth cold, them suck him) == lacy underwear Moreover, men want the same things you do. They want to be desired and appreciated, so tell him he's your guy whenever you can. Have spontaneous sex in a restaurant bathroom or in the car on the way home. Go panty-less and surprise him with that fact at an inopportune time (middle of a wedding, on a tour bus, at his mother's house) to get him turned on.
this is a really good post! one thing i might add is ... do a striptease for him, or maybe even for him and a couple of his buddies.
I was thinking the obvoious stuff -- giving head, getting on top, becoming a bedroom gymnast -- is pretty much known by everyone, so I skipped those and concentrated on things that might not occur to our original poster. A striptease is always a good thing, but I'm surprised how many women don't have a clue how to be sexy taking off their clothes. One thing is for sure is that men are turned on by women who get wildly physical and, hopefully, reach a climax. (Thus, all the faked orgasms, which I personally think are stupid and a detriment to a healthy relationship.) Now the point here is that so many women, unbelieveably, don't do what it takes to get off: if you need a little clitoral stimulation, reach down and add the proper rub yourself, or at least tell him what to do; get on top and take control of where his pointy thing makes contact with your favorite spots; tell him you like whatever forplay works for you, and insist he doesn't stop until you're good and ready to move on; bring sex aids that please you to the bed. Bottom line is that nearly every man gets turned on by you getting off.
haha it does sound a bit whoreish but what i meant was like future boyfriends or something cause i have a guy friend right know but i am not sure he is a keeper i made with the future in mind
sit on it?????? Or stick an ice cube in each cheek then suck it or if you really wanna get a guy to like you get your friend to suck his cock while you finger fuck her twat? Any guy would love that. Peace
First off, it doesn't really hurt if you touch it without lubrication. Just be careful not to create excessive friction. I have no issue with my wife giving me a dry hand-job. Secondly, don't forget about mental teasing. If you're making his johnson hard, you're doing something right. Wear something that's "accidentally" sexy, "forget" to wear a bra and get chilly/nippy, tell him something incredibly sexy at an awkward time when there's nothing he can do about it. Of course you'll have to pay dearly for all the teasing but I think the payment you'll get is something you're looking forward to anyway. Once you get him thinking about what all he wants to do to you, there's not much you can do wrong. Just finish him off in what ever way you like. Finally, if he thinks you're enjoying it, he'll enjoy it. In between kisses or licks, tell him how much you like what you're doing, or how he looks/feels. Just don't talk non-stop.
I like it when the girl arches her back and holds her booty in the air right in doggy position lol. Other than that she just has to let me suck her tits and eat her out as much as I want for me to be happy lol. You can try giving him anilingus lolol.