What constitutes Bisexual?

there are as many kind of bisexuals as heterosexuals. We're all different in our likes, desires, dislikes.

I reckon anyone who gets pleasure from both sexes is bi, whatever they do or don't do. The scale is from 1 - 6, where 1 is straight and 6 is gay.

I'm emotionally attracted to women but love sex with both sexes. I had my first m2m experience (apart from some play at puberty) at 19 and have probably had a ratio of lovers over the last 40 years of
2 (female) : 1 (male).

But as an earlier poster said the desire/urge/need? has maybe got stronger now I'm older and the desire to enjoy the last years of our sexuality with whom and which sex we wish has perhaps got stronger. I have been married the last 20 years and while my wife knew that I had some bi tendencies, I didn't tell all; I am blessed by her acceptance of my bi-side and that she accepts me, even encourages me to be happy, going with guys. I hope to find a longer-term FWB but first you have to look.

Returning to which bits of action you like............. most of my life m2m liasons I have been a top, but due to my wife's encouragement I experimented with anal, and now describe myself as 'versatile'. So long as everybody is scrupulously clean, and I use a douche every time, then anal play is great, and the feeling and sensation of having a hard cock inside you is wonderful. Took me years to get here, but................... everyone then to his own and what he and his/her partners enjoy.

Good loving,

Simon :sunny: