It was always the favorite with which they did it, I think it matters much more how well the person who does it knows it. Maybe I couldn't stand the plastic stick, it hurt a lot.
A few years ago I earned extra money by nude cleaning for an older guy. It always ended up with spankings for poor work (and a load extra cash). Enjoyed paddle and he was excellent with a leather strap. No over-strike would do both sides with the end of the strap hitting middle of far cheek. Very painful but no damage that that.. I would love to take a prison strap or an antique razor strop. I have been caned but that was not so enjoyable. The “employer” was fun. Had strict rules such as when I was allowed to be erect at work. He lived in the middle of nowhere so I arrived and left the house completely naked. Occasionally he had a friend or two over when I was “working”. Sadly he passed away a long time ago now.
A hairbrush is a standard for good old fashioned spanking on the behind. A Jokari paddle is too large and too thick.
I have never been spanked, but I fantasize about being told to lower my panties and bend over his knee. I would like a good hand spanking first. Then maybe a hairbrush or paddle. Perhaps bent over the edge if a bed or arm of a couch. I would like a red, warm behind. Sore enough so that I won’t soon forget it, but no welts, bruises or bleeding.
A hand spanking hurts for both parties but it's a nice way to start. I like to start with my hand so that I can feel her ass cheeks and watch closely as she receives it. The first few, well placed spanks leave a beautiful, rosy hand mark and I often want to stop right there just to admire that. I don't, of course but sometimes after leaving a few hand marks I'll decide to switch...put her into a different position and use another tool.
My favorites. A flogger. A riding crop. And a paint stirring stick. With a blind fold and hand restraints makes for a good part of fore play
A leather paddle would be nice, it’s a little softer that a hard wooden paddle so it won’t bruise you but it gives a nice little sting and makes a nice sound slapping your bottom. Plus it looks more kinky. definitely use my hand over my knee and the paddle for over the couch end. you would love it so much you naughty girl.