What are the chances that she's pregnant?

Consider it done....

 

Dude sticks peen in beast. Beast gets pregnant. Dude has sadness. Beast has someone to pay for baby until it turns 25. LMAO! What an idiot.

 

It wasn't just her choice to make. We both decided. It's not as simple as just tossing something away. This is a moving, breathing, life. An innocent child. Do you know how hard it was to come forth and even suggest the option of abortion to her? She had to remind me that it didn't matter what circumstances led to this baby's conception, it's still a precious life that we owe to do all we can for it. These two months have been the hardest ever. School is impossible to keep up with. This new job i'm working at is terrible. my parents haven't looked at me the same since I told them. her parents have some anger towards me too. and I have to have her on my mind every single minute. It's so tough man. But as hard as it is, I couldn't live with myself if we didn't go along with this pregnancy. And she feels that way too.

 

Don't get me wrong, I meant alot of what I said and still do about her lack of care. Just on Wednesday I was taking her to get some more comfortable bras cause she'd been telling me she was sore. On our way back while I was driving she farted nastily in the car and just started laughing her f*kin laugh. I was disgusted, but I didn't yell or cuss. I just made it firmly clear that I didn't like what she did. She got prissy too, but she hasn't done certain shit like that again.

It's at least improving. I haven't been fighting with her as much, and we are talking a little better. She often thinks too highly of herself. Sometimes she'll wear clothes that don't even fit and wont notice. But on each occasion I let her know where I'm coming from while making sure she gives me a certain level of respect. I'm not one of those people she can pick on. We're on the same level, and I make that known to her.

I've been so preoccupied that I haven't even though about that tbh. I'm gonna talk to my folks and see what can be done about it.

I'm going with bernadette to the doctor for an ultrasound on monday. I'm gonna have to get things settled after then.

 

@Janus

From here on in I'm just gonna start ignoring assholes like you and others who keep provoking me. It's not worth my time.

 

Well, you chose your own path in life, so now you have to live with all that comes with it. You don't get to complain anymore.

Again, I don't know why you feel you have to do these things. Her parents can't take her shopping and go with her to get things done? You might has well think about marrying her, cause you're walking in that direction anyways.... just saying.

 

I'm just trying to be there for her. Part of that is building a friendly relationship so that we can get through this pregnancy without hostility. Whether or not I enjoy some of the things I'm doing with her, it at least gives us a chance to converse and know one another better. That can only be beneficial for us and this baby down the line.

I don't have many people to talk to in detail about what I'm going through, so I can't help but let off some steam here. I'm just venting more than anything.

 

There WILL be pregnancy-related hostility. You should be more worried about the rest of your life, than the pregnancy.

I must say, at this point, it's NOT a living, breathing thing..... it's not much more conscious than a tumour. She could still get an abortion at this point.

And, I don't think that being around her to get bras and such is going to help much..... I'd make her ask her parents. It's awkward and shit, and that's her tough cookies.

How where your parents?

 

Get back in the kitchen. Sandwiches all around.

Is it fair? No, but that's biology.

 

Mmmm......sammiches

I want bacon on mine. And make it snappy I only have 30 min for lunch

 

30 minute lunch break

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AeNBXORc2HQ"]Chris Rock 30 min lunch break - YouTube

 

I think it would be more regretful to have a child you didn't want and you weren't prepared to have (whether financially, mentally, emotionally) than to, you know, go through with that procedure and be able to plan your life out better. The parents - they may not regret giving birth to a child they didn't want or weren't prepared for when the kids are much older, but damn if they won't take it out on those kids in subtle ways over the years. Whether consciously or subconsciously. This particular case being discussed in this thread is not a happy start. He obviously can't stand the woman who is going to have his child. And, if I'm not mistaken, he already lost the other girl he actually DID like over this. Resentment is going to build over time and fester around like the stink in a boar's asshole. That's not to say I don't respect that the guy is trying to do the right thing, though. I hope the kid winds up better off than most kids in this position, but this whole situation isn't the formula for a healthy childhood.

 

Stop being her bitch, do things for the kid not the mum.
But you get get tests to determinate whether bro not your the dad whilst she's pregnant.

 

And most (the vast majority, actually) women who have abortions don't regret having those, either.

 

Do you have a source for this claim?

Thats weird, during my 30 min lunch I have plenty of time to smoke a bowl, get some food, eat, smoke a ciggerrete, and then fuck off for 5-10 min. I wouldn't want an hour lunch.

 

http://women.webmd.com/news/20000822/study-says-most-women-dont-regret-abortion

Results of a quick Google search.

 

You don't know how to use Google, either?

 

Bahaha.

 

Using google is pretty easy. Choosing a credible source is a whole other deal.
I could easily pull up several sources from google that claim the opposite of your assertion.


Have you ever thought that maybe someone wants to know what you're basing YOUR facts from? A lot of people talk out there ass without looking anything up. I was just wondering if you fall into that category.

 

You could, but I'd look it up myself and if I found something that countered what you said, I'd post the source and ask you to refute it.

Point taken.