What am I doing wrong

Thank you so much everyone for your help, I haven't had time to respond with a proper reply, but I'll do that now.

Musikero: Thanks so much for the advice, I'm trying to practice and loosen up, I find I' to self concious and I always care about my self image (because I grew up over weight and I'm still trying to loose some onf it, but it's going pretty fast), and I'm trying sort of to not really care, becasue theres other fish in the sea, but I'm practicing flirting with girls even though I don't like them and it's going well, so far over the past few days my self confidence has risen alot!

Duck: I see what you mean and I find with so much advice I'm able to just loosen up and go with the flow. But I know what you mean about not stopping going agter her, I haven't and I think she's starting to like me. Thanks for taking time and writing these replys.

soaringeagle: I see what you mean, if your sad or moping people don't want to be a round you as much as if you were happy and joyful and full of life!