Wow you are just a pompous and arrogant jerk. It never seems to amaze me how you seem to become so mean. Maybe some people are attracted to guys like him. It is personal preference, just like not everyone like taking it up the butt and plunging at the same time. You posted your opinion now shut up and let people give theirs.
Sushio, I'd love to see a photo of you, you would have to look pretty bloody good to be talking the way you do. And even then, if you looked like Brad Pitt, you'd still be a complete dick for talking about people the way you do, and would therefore not be attractive anyhow.
i voted you attractive. i go for the unkempt sort of look. it's cute and care-free. and you're not fat, just big-boned and well-covered. why're you so worried about what other people think, anyway?
it's a dark pic so i can't really see you all that well, but i put unattractive because there is an obvious confidence issue if you are asking people online to give you pointers. if you are right and do have a great personality and are open and friendly with people then a really great person will dig you right back. if you are only looking for the attractive chick that doesn't care about personality then prepare for a lifetime of jerking off.
To be honest, your over weight, OK you got start eating right, that means no junk food. Juice everyday, excercise everyday, start walking as far as you can burn calories. Go to a gym and workout with light weights, for at least 2 hours get your muscles defined but don't go too far. Most people are overweight so don't be too concerned, women just don't want a slob. Ask yourself what do I find attractive about a women and why ? OK now ask yourself based on what you like, what would you like if you were a women. Do you like fat obese women ? Do you like women who stink ? Do you like women that don't groom themselves ? Do you like bad breath ? Do you like clean white teeth or green rocks that stink ? Do you like women to have long dirty finger nails ? Do you like women that don't bath and wear filthy untidy clothes ? It's pretty obvious isn't it really.
wow... and I thought CA had the market cornered on image fascism... you look fine. regardless of what you look like it's how you present yourself. Even if you were "ugly" which I don't think you are, there's always somebody who's going to think you're hot. everybody's got tons of people who want to get with them. rock what you got. if people don't like it or the way you look... tell 'em to go fuck themselves. I think the most unhealthy bodily practice is the worship of what we're supposed to look like. Eat this... do that... then you'll be beautiful and people will like you... lol it's a disease. just enjoy yourself and you'll be fine.
To add to my earlier comment, I agree with GentleBen that you should drink plenty of juice. It's generally better tasting to people than soda and it a shitload healthier. Exercise should be a daily thing, 30 min to an hour is best. And walking instead of driving to places close-by is recommended. I agree that its a sad aspect of life, but I don't think that it's a disease. I think it normal competition between members of the same species. We compete to look better to attract mates and survive. It's unfortunate to those who fall behind but that's competition.
in my experience you compete for love and sex and you'll always come out a loser because no matter how good you look there's always going to be somebody better looking and faster and younger... stronger... and if there isn't now, wait a few minutes. not to mention looking better usually requires nifty gadgets and trinkets... such as diamonds and bigger cars and houses and getting those things usually causes conflict, if not outright war in some "loser" place like africa or central or south america... asia. So I guess being better is something to strive for. Who cares if half the world can't even walk to the food market without worrying about being killed or being able to get clean water. The competition culture is exactly what keeps us from being able to find an equilibrium on the planet, with the planet. besides that how do you even know who you are or what you want if all you ever do is strive to be better than everybody else? do you seriously want to be with somebody because they think you're the best? what happens when your buddy gets more cut and get's a promotion? or do you just dominate all your friends and the person you're with making sure that they're the best and your kids are the best? nothing against you personally Vire it's just something that kind of has me scratching my head as to how we as a species ever managed to survive this long thinking that beating something was ever going to get us anywhere. all I've ever seen getting ahead as getting... is alone.
wanna hera the truth? here comes my critic: 1. You aren't ugly but you aren't hot either. Here is something you can fix 2. Go to a gym build some muscles and fix your body a bit, you are not HORRRIBLY fat but chubby, and if you wnat the girls to pay more attention to you fix the chubbiness a bit. 3. Your hair is average too,it isn't bad, but i would say it fits you ok. Still how about you try a new style that would make you look like a man 4. I personaly don't like your clothes. Its ... well go grab some mates and go shopping, pic something that would make you look a bit slimmer and something that looks hot, the clothes you have on make it look like you are a bit nerdy 5. and yes, you are a guy righ? So please don't let us get confused Otherwise i would give you average
jrnyman is right. LISTEN TO HIM. forget these other hacks that should probably fix themselves before giving anyone else advice... the bottom line is: screw trying to be attractive to everyone else on the planet and just be you. do what makes you feel good. don't do what makes you feel fake just to please others. it's not worth it. ever. the right girl will accept you as you are. that simple.
Not a lot wrong here. Dude, get down the gym and beef yer muscles up a bit, get a slightly better fitting t-shirt, leave the hair alone, and you'll be reeling 'em in...simple. That's just my honest opnion.
Wouldn't it be great if that was how the world worked? But sadly, no. Appearance matters. Not to "other hacks" like me, but to people in general. Appearance is always taken into account in any kind of relationship. btw, that first paragraph was an awfully quick judgment of a group of people who you know from only, at most, 3-4 posts on a forum.