Not so much at home. I'd be more inclined to get a swift slap. I only recall a couple. But never an over the knee type spanking. And my mother was more the disaplinarian. I did receive many paddles of various sorts in school though.
I can’t ever remember being spanked as a child. Maybe that’s why i enjoy a good spanking now from my wife..
Yes. I remember my very first spanking. I was 4 years old. My mom saw me hit a boy outside. She chased me inside. I ran to my bedroom. I was trapped on my bed when she spanked me yelling "do not hit, do not hit" with each swat. That was the first but certainly not the last. At age 8 my parents divorced and Mom won custody. She became a strict disciplinarian and spanked me regularly, often times for the slightest offenses. She became a heavy wine drinker and the alcohol made her more likely to give me a spanking. As soon as I saw or heard that first glass of wine being poured I had a fearful butterflies in the stomach sensation . I knew I had to be perfectly behaved because anything could set her off. Did this contribute to my spankings fetish. I would say 100%. Yet I never had any (conscious) fetish feelings towards my mother's spankings. I feared and dreaded them. Yet they still created the fetish because I had fantasies of my teachers and other adults spanking me. I wouldn't have even had those thoughts if my mother didn't spank me..
Of course, back then, I got spanked by my parents, relatives, teachers, and sometimes other parents when I visited them.