Were you spanked as a child?

Not so much at home. I'd be more inclined to get a swift slap. I only recall a couple. But never an over the knee type spanking. And my mother was more the disaplinarian. I did receive many paddles of various sorts in school though.

 

I can’t ever remember being spanked as a child. Maybe that’s why i enjoy a good spanking now from my wife..

 

Between the ages of 7 and 16, I was regularly spanked with various tools.

 

Who spanked? Mom or Dad?

 

Yes. I remember my very first spanking. I was 4 years old. My mom saw me hit a boy outside. She chased me inside. I ran to my bedroom. I was trapped on my bed when she spanked me yelling "do not hit, do not hit" with each swat. That was the first but certainly not the last. At age 8 my parents divorced and Mom won custody. She became a strict disciplinarian and spanked me regularly, often times for the slightest offenses. She became a heavy wine drinker and the alcohol made her more likely to give me a spanking. As soon as I saw or heard that first glass of wine being poured I had a fearful butterflies in the stomach sensation . I knew I had to be perfectly behaved because anything could set her off.

Did this contribute to my spankings fetish. I would say 100%. Yet I never had any (conscious) fetish feelings towards my mother's spankings. I feared and dreaded them. Yet they still created the fetish because I had fantasies of my teachers and other adults spanking me. I wouldn't have even had those thoughts if my mother didn't spank me..

 

Educators, supervisors, teachers, partners.

 

Of course, back then, I got spanked by my parents, relatives, teachers, and sometimes other parents when I visited them.

 

Several times, relatives, teachers, and sometimes other parents.

 

Spanked is a mild term

 

Yes. Was raised in a military family and it happened frequently for us 3 kids. Usually bare and as I got older id have to hide a semi. Went away during but always came back. Haven’t tried it as an adult but might be interested.

 

Yeah, no kidding. I got spanked, slapped, weight-lifting belts, radio cords, pliers, whatever else he could find.

 

Could have been more like getting your ass kicked...

 

Several times, almost regularly, relatives, coach and sometimes other parents.

 

Nothing worse than getting a beating in school or a neighbor catches you doing something you had no business doing and they beat your ass then you get home - or taken home - and your parents beat that ass. Bad enough your mom would beat you then she tells your father and he beats you, too. I think I turned out better than the kids who never got spanked...

 

But I enjoyed it

 

There was nothing about getting my ass beaten that I found enjoyable...

 

I was a quiet, kind of meek smart kid. We had a bully move into the neighborhood and one day I found a toy in the street (a Slinky if you remember those). The bully said give me that and before I could even hand it to him, he punched me in the eye and I go home.

My dad shows up from work and asks what happened to my eye. I said Joe (the bully) hit me. He asked if I hit him back and I said no, he's scary. My dad says to me: You either go outside and fight him or I'm going to beat your ass. Terrible parenting by the way. My dad was a psycho and meant it. So I went outside and fought the kid. I was scared of the kid, but more scared of my dad. Long story short, I left the kid bleeding. I fought the kid 4 more times after this, initiated by me every time. I then started beating up the older bully kids in the neighborhood and eventually became a hockey fighter/enforcer. Regardless, it was terrible parenting and my dad was always quick to use a belt or something worse on me. Nothing enjoyable about it either.

 

Yeah, I had that happen with the neighborhood bully who wanted to beat me up. My father asked, "Who are you more afraid of, him or me? If you don't beat his ass, I'm going to be your ass!" The sidewalk on our side of the street was paved with brick and I clearly remember ripping one out of the sidewalk and beating the bully with it and it took my father and two other adults to take the brick and pull me off of him. Bad parenting? Perhaps but if you ever acted like a sissy, fathers would want to make a man out of you in this way and, I dunno, I guess it worked. I mean, I told my oldest son that when he was being plagued by a bully and all I said was, "Either you kick his ass or I'm going to kick your ass..." and, whew, in a way, I wish I hadn't told him that because he beat the kid pretty badly but became a guy that the word was out that, naw, you do not want to mess with him.

Me and the now former bully became great friends (and lovers of a sort) after that day bricked him but I knew that if I didn't fight this guy, my father was going to beat me silly or, worse, hand me over to my mom for the beating and I was more afraid of her than I was him. I... didn't mind getting a beating for something I did but I had younger siblings who'd do shit and say that I did it and I'd wind up getting a beating, not only for something I didn't do but for something I didn't know about because I wasn't around when it happened. But that was okay because when that happen, I'd kick their asses for lying on me and making me get whupped.

 

Wow, the similarity is crazy. I ended up slamming that kid against the bricks of my house. My crazy dad was cheering me while the kid bled and the other parents had to drag me off. I wouldn't have done it had I not been truly afraid of my dad if I didn't do it.

My mom was way more passive. I would get the occasional slap. I don't remember any spanking, but I'm sure it happened. It was the least of all of my worries.

 

My father didn't cheer or egg me on, but I was aware that he was watching me as I pulled the brick out of the sidewalk and commenced to beating the guy with it. I don't remember my mother saying anything other than it was good that I stood up for myself. I think she asked my father if the guy was hurt bad or not, but I'd been sent to my room. My mother was a lot of things, but passive wasn't one of them.