so why did you say it wouldn't be what anyone would have thought? you know besides that answer and the kinkier possibilities it could just as easily have been some jerk trying to teach his dog to do a high wire act =^^= .../\...
because i'm a compulsive grouch! at least i seem to be at the moment. besides i didn't mean to. and i don't quite see how broadining your horizons instead of narrowing them is supposed to have ruined anything. if there is one thing that raises my hackles it is narrowing each other's universe with gratuitous conventionality ok i'll go away quitely now for a while =^^= .../\...
i agree with themnax...besides...if you want to play real mind games you need a woman to initiate it *zing*