virginity sucks

then what does one doooo?
lol leave it up to the lord!!:$

 

I think part of the problem is that girls let the guy fuck them the first time. You need to do the fucking, so you can control how fast, hard, etc. things happen, so you dont get hurt.

My first time was also her first time, so I told her to just let me know when it starts to hurt. Well, it wasnt long before she let me know, and we didnt finish until we tried it another day. Now that I think about it, If I would have had her get on top and be in control it probably would have worked out that first time.

 

Really? Some of the people i've talked to say that its better to be on the bottom, something about it being more relaxing helps.

 

i totally agree. i was on top my first time, and when i was with a rather "large" boyfriend it helped immensely for my to start out on top.

 

it didn't hurt at all my first time.

 

Not true. You're not a girl and have obviously never been there. Trust me. it hurts not matter how gentle the guy is, depending on his size.

 

My advice is not to listen to this guy hahaha. Remember don't think cause that makes you worry.

 

I partially agree with you. You are comparing us to primitive animals though. Yes, sex was meant to make babies, but we are humans, we can make babies other ways. Vitro fertilization, cloning, genetically modifing things, it can all create babies too. If you stuck to your "natural animal instincts" why don't you live like a cave man. I am glad you believe in nature, but what you say is not nature. It's truly impossible to not follow one of natures laws, thats like trying to mix oil and water together. For you not to have sex until your 25 doesn't make you any closer to nature as someone having sex at age 12.

Next, you said sex drive is natural. Eatting is also an natural drive, so why don't you eat all organic from now on. You don't want anything (heaven forbid) "unnatural" in your diet.

You said sex was something special and you only do it with your baby's mother. So why are you waiting until your 25? Is that the age where young men find their love of thier life? Why 25 and not 24 or 26?

Other then this, I agree with you. Don't be too closed minded, or you might just not be thinking logical.

 

to be honest i didn't think virginity was that bad. i mean all my friends were asham,ed of it. like being a 17 year old virgin was a bad thing? people as young as 14 thought it was a bad thing but like i didn't see what the problem was.


i figured it was people the same age who insisted on bragging about their first time and how not big a deal it was...until they themselves got pregnant.


my first time didn't hurt at all and i was on the bottom. we changed over and stuff but i preferred it the first way.

plus we used protection ...condoms and the pill....as for the weight gain on the pill the doctor gave me a certain brand that apparently lessened the increase in appetite people have when they go on the pill. she said thats all it was down to. increase in appetite and that is easily controlled i think.

i wasn't too big on the tender breasts thing though...i felt 13 all over again.

but i don't reccomend rushing in and if you are worried about stds and getting pregnent...use as many precautions as you think necessary. the pill a condom and even a diaphragm if you want. but dont worry about it hurting. if your tense it will not be a good experience. you'll knwo when the time is right. and if you're really worried about it hurting.....try a vibrator to break yourself in.

i apologise for bein vulgar there but most people i know did that just in case their boyfriends were too big.

 

haha yes but im a girl and i think girls on the whole tend to overthink. maybe its just embedded in our DNA or something...

 

My first time didn't hurt at all. Everyone's different though. Think of it as something romantic. It's making love. If you trust him, there's nothing to worry about.

 

No, lonliness sucks. You need to re-calibrate your priorities.

 

Couldn't have said it better myself!

 

No i do not, lonliness is not the same this as virginity because you can have someone and be with someone and not be able to share with them something as special as sex. THEREFORE i need not to re-calibrate my priorities because I can see the difference in this situation.

 

Can't they both suck? Does it matter which one sucks more?


I mean let's face it, I couldn't get laid if I wanted to, (though I want to wait a couple years of course), and I'm pretty lonely, so I think they are both bad if you make them.

 

If you ever become truly lonely in life, then you will realize what is more important.

 

Heh, tru dat.

 

The original point of this discussion was not about being lonely, it was about wanting to share something as special as sex with someone. We all set different values on things in life and this is one of mine, if it differs from your opinion than im sorry. If you can't help the situation than please leave your opinion out of it.

 

Haha I like this guy

 

True, true