virgin: should i feel left behind at 16?!

Thats stupid a blow job is nothing like losing your virginity, sure it is still sex but it's not the same as intercourse.

 

blowjob = oral sex sex =lost virginity and do it when it feels right you will know that yourself but if your drunk just say no.

 

i am still a virgin at 23.

whats the hurry?

i was told by a good friend of mine, who was a girl back in high school.

there are a lot of fishes in the sea.


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this is now my own logic....

all you need is a rod, the right bait ( your personality and security in your job or profession) , the right tide( right time) where the fish are....... then wait.

they will come swimming to you.

 

Half the guys who claim to have had sex at 16 are puffing, and of those who really did have sex by 16, if you watched how it went with a secret video camera, you would see - one guy coming in 10 seconds, another who could not keep it hard, a third fumbling with clothing or a condom, and the fourth trying to find the right hole in the dark. Others may have gotten to what used to be called "third base", but are saying that they made it home.

Intercourse is something anyone can do, but few can do well. It takes a lot of practice to become a good lover.

 

A friend of mine is 22 and a virgin. There is nothing wrong with the fact that you have not had sex yet. My first time was at 17 with a guy I thought I loved he turned out to just be a prick. So take your time and be sure it is right you do not want to regret your first time.

 

I am 17, and there is no event in the foreseeable future where I am going to lose my virginity. I am perfectly content.

 

You might want to ask in the Love and Sex Forum, because some of those people know a lot. But, I think actual penetration determines "Virginity Loss" but, it isn't a big deal. Guys, when you find the right girl, it'll happen.

As I tell my kids, WEAR A CONDOM.

 

It's all peer pressure, I wouldn't worry about it.
Who cares what you're peers are doing!
Besides right now you're disease free! That is sooo valuable!

How do you spell relief? N-o-a-i-d-s!





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