virgin: should i feel left behind at 16?!

fuck you, who cares how i spell?

 

Hopefully any girl about to spread her legs for you.

 

why should anyone care how i spell?? you should get the meaning of what im saying, just cuz i say it wrong doesnt mean that im stupid ass hole.

 

besides, all i asked was a simple question...is getting a blowjob count as losing your virginity? so why are you freaking out about my spelling?

 

Depends on who you are asking. Some people think so and others don't. I personally don't, but that's just me.


As for being a virgin a 16, big deal? You're still really young and you shouldn't feel like you've fallen behind, at all! I'm amazed at how many guys I go to school with who are still virgins, and I think its great, although they may not think so. Having sex just for the sake of doing it because everybody else has is ridiculous. Your time will come.

 

Be proud that you are still a virgin bother.
It's noone else's business
It will be so much more meaningful when you lose it to someone you actually care about.

peace,
steele

 

yea, nothing wrong with it. ive only had sex once and it wasnt even special cause i was just real drunk and it ended with me feeling like i was about to braf so i had to run to the bathroom. yea, if someone asks me i can claim im not a virgin, but i dont like going into details about what happened. just make sure its something special when it happens

 

man, I waited until I was 22. yeah, that was like 6 months ago. I decided early on that I wasn't going to have sex with a girl until I met someone I really and truly loved. When I did, she is such a beautiful human being I am still in awe. It took 22 years to find that special person but it was absolutely worth it.

it's a bummer in this society though, because I can't even tell you the amount of shit I got from other guys (and girls for that matter) for being a virgin. It was the local gossip around my workplace even. So trust me, I know how much pressure there is to get laid but man you gotta do what you want to do when you want to do it and fuck everyone else.

know yourself.

 

Would it have been worth the wait if she ends up leaving you?

 

of course. I'm moving to the west coast in november so we won't be able to be with each other then, but all in all it was/is completely worth it.

 

So you spend 22 years of your life looking for that special some one, actually meet her and get together and your going to leave her in less then a year?

 

I could go into the full story but that would be a waste of time (and I don't feel like sharing such personal information with someone I don't know), so in short, yes. sorry if it doesn't make sense to you. it's a bummer, yeah, but that's the way things go.

 

One should remain virgin until they're married.
Even if I wasn't a Chrsitian I would still prefer a virgin over a non-virgin.
It has a sense of purity , loyalty, and faithfulness.
I woudn't want somebody that htinks only about screwing....

So don't be upset about it. Wear it with pride. ^^
it makes you more interesting and special than others...

 

In my oppinion yes

 

titles.... anyhoo. grew up no rents blah blah. short. i wanted it to be special. i still do. was special. unusual?had this crush on a grrl. she was fun sexy smart. but i figured naw not me. not true later learned. anyhoo up in snow neckin. pine needles blah smelled good she had mohawk to her ass. 3 years in prison grow hair.i want u inside me... no else needed . i built up shit in my head how itd be. no family etc. turns out other guys do that shit too. i cried like sum emo tho.she took the piss outta me course. i took care of everything. she got cought i sprung her my socials good grew up locked. type set aside. after a bit . grrl id wanted assumed was blahdey blah . best friend angry jumpon jonny. u know shes in love with you... story story naw3? fuckin in her gparents trailer fer days loni was name good i member name. dunno you do what you do. id rather get kicked in the face . i mean ill chase. lotta schools. sincerity. oh is mine

 

WTf is this guy talkin bout hahaha ^^^^^^^^^6

 

Yes. Having one's first time be special is worth the wait. Even though I only dated my first for like 9 months, I look back on it and know that I felt that I really loved the guy. I wouldn't trade that for any experience.

And slightly off topic, funny story about being asked about being a virgin:
When my fiance was 7 or 8, his family moved from a tiny town in SE Ohio to Rochester, NY. He was saying "golly gee" and "gosh darn" while his classmates were telling the teacher to "fuck off".
So one of his classmates asked him one day, "are you a virgin?"
Not knowing what a virgin was, he replied, "no, I'm Catholic."

 

This is crazy.
16?
I have a buddy who is 28 and still a virgin (if you can call men that) and I know dozens of young men in their early 20s still waiting.

You dont even have to bother thinking about anything like this for years and years.
Rent a copy of The 40 year old Virgin and chill out heh.

 

I'm 16 and haven't had sex...

Don't have sex just to have sex so you wont be a virgin. Make your first one memorable because it wont matter if your 16 or 26 when you do it.

 

I cant believe you're serious, are you a virgin to?