Valentines plans?

hahhhhaaaaaaaaah you're bad!!!!!!!! I usually just let the guy drive my car I think some guys just want me for my car.

 

yea

hahahahaha

 

We've established my car is better anyway I don't mind if a girl wants me for my car, because I don't want her, just parts of her

 

yeah, I'm sorry, taco bell and being made to pay on the first date (not offering and having that offer accepted, but forced to) would make me NEVER want a second date with them again. If you can't afford to pay for cheap ass food on the first date, suggest something that doesn't cost money, like a walk on the riverbank or visiting a free museum.

 

Hoooo....damns, boy! You're set!

 

I don't make[/i] anybody buy anything.... poor choice of verbiage, I admit. It was more the point behind the post.

Besides I can afford cheap ass food.....I can afford the nicest restaraunt in the city...... but I want to see if a girl is after that or if she's after me.....\


Edit:

I mean really, do you take me for a taco bell date kinda guy?

 

Well..... I dunno about set, but she's definitely in for one hell of a surprise. I haven't broken out the diamonds yet :X

 

I always offer to pay on a date. Usually the guy will end up insisting on paying, though. But the next time I'll insist, so it's fair.

I don't mind so much if he accepts my offer to pay all or part........,but if he doesnt make any effort at all to pick up the bill, thats about the end of things.

 

I'm a bit drunk and misconstrued the point.... but basically what you said is what I look for before I go into "chivalry" mode. I'm nobodys meal ticket.

 

i usually offer to pay, even if i know it will hurt me later on in the week...so hopefully i get some help, even if its just the tip....

 

ah, yeah, that's how I feel too. I occasionally steal the bill if he hasn't been letting me pay lately, or if I ordered something more expensive than him (like on our first date, we went out for drinks after he'd paid for supper and was gonna pay for a movie, he ordered a pop and I got a beer, beer was more expensive so I stole the bill), but usually I offer to pay or ask if he wants a donation towards the tip

 

IMO if a guy wants the hell out of you you can always tell by where he takes you on a first date, assuming it's a typically known each other ask youout type of deal. And men LOVE it when I don't touch the check or offer and always rub their arm as we're walking out the door and kiss them on the cheek and say thatnks that was really yummy. I can see them melt...would I ever get that reaction or look od adorance if I paid the bill or even half...hell no

 

.....I guess I'm in the wrong place, because Indiana is FULL of gold diggers.

 

Yeah it's nice when someone's buying you your meal to at least lay down for the tip. I don't know.. I'm always a little paranoid about looking like I'm using a guy or am incapable of paying my way. It's very nice when a guy pays for me, but I like to make a point that I would happily pitch in if he'd let me.
IF that makes sense.........?

 

If it's a long-term thing I suaully always pay the tip or try to or pay if he's really short on cash but other then that I contribute in other ways...later at home(;

 

Makes perfect sense. If a girl offers to pay, I generally wont let her. I mean she's showed she's not after the money, but if she acts like she's waiting for me to pay the bill.....I get really skeptical.

 

aah, yeah, that's the really fun way to contribute bwahaha

 

That look of adoration is in my opinion, a look of "father to child". He's happy because he's looking after you and you're happy because you're weaker than him and childish and were just looked after. He feeds you and you repay him with submissive physical gestures. That's what I meant when i said I was paranoid about seeming incompetent and dependent. I want to come across as a mature woman, not as a weakling girl. I want a relationship of equals, and of equal respect. Personally..

~Peace

 

maybe things are different out here. I;ve never paid for a date with a guy from CA-ever. And nmost I know would be completley insulted if I offered to pay my way and would prob not want a second date with me for offereing.

 

Lol.... you mean, he buys things for you like food. And you give him sex.
Hrm!!!!!!!!!


Haha......,sorry lynsey don't mean to rip on you, had to say it.

~Peace