Using LSD to overcome social anxiety/gain confidence/kill insecurity?

even if we all weren't on the same level, what would it matter?

well i mean what you need to do is figure out why you are having those fucked up thought loops. it sounds like it could be some repressed memory, or some overdue emotional baggage. or maybe it is just your psyche telling you that it is time to try lsd.

either way, you should listen to your feelings and find the root source.

 

It is the most sublime and healing moment of your entire life. How are you supposed to get change if you're terrified of it? This is your problem; change is flitting all around you, wanting to help you, and you are shrinking back, because change means you change.

Ask yourself why you're not ok with this . . . I mean, you're obviously not happy where you are now, right?

 

Well i mean, i am so used to the way my mind would work, If i change now its like i have to start all over from the beginning again. There are some things about the way i am now that i don't want to ever change, like my values, my judgement, logical thinking, etc. For example driving is like my favorite thing, and i need all of my inhibitions for that i don't want that to change because my inhibitions have served me well.
I just have kinda tough time talking to girls, its like all of society is focused on getting the girl, to add onto that i realize it would be nice to get girls and all that pressure makes it overwhelming and makes me overthink things. It just makes things more of an annoyance and hassle than it really is worth. I would rather be alone than have a not attractive girl, so the more attractive they are the more i think and i realize that they know they are good looking, so it intimidates me that they know they can get anyone and it makes me feel like i'm just another boy. I know that i'm not good at talking and thats the problem i just don't like talking because it makes me think too much.

 

I can talk to women no problem, actually after my acid trip i felt much more confident about who iam as a person, but also at the same time i felt like the smallest thing in the univerese...But i do too feel that iam not too good at talking, so i can resemble FreshDacre but also not at all

 

what about you? did you know that you can get anyone? they are just another girl. time to take back some of that power brother.

alot of the time though girls are alot more hassle than they are worth. it isn't a bad thing to wait to find one that isn't as much of a hassle. you shouldn't let society pressure you into having a relationship that you don't want. once you find someone who isn't just another girl then that is when things really hit the fan.

we have all had problems with talking to girls at one time or another. but for me, alot of the time girls tend to find my insecurities cute, so i don't really know. haha

 

. . . what? You think if you change, you will have to relearn how to "you" again? No dude . . . you're the thing that changes. You no more will have to relearn how to use your mind than you had to learn the first time. You will even be able to walk and talk afterwards, too!

Oh. Then you've already made your decision, no change for you.

But you are. And they are just another girl. Be the man that keeps them hooked, don't worry about the other men. And if a woman leaves you for another man, then wish her happiness and secretely feel sorry for her that she'll never get to be your woman .

 

K thanks for the tips guys. I just hate how you have to create your own character for the girls to take interest. I do think of myself as pretty attractive though so atleast i only have to work on my character. I do want bigger muscles though so i might join a gym.

 

you dont create a character, you are the character that they want to date. You just have to SHOW them this. Show them the parts of your character they will like. Dont have to be fake even 1% man. She not digging you? then you wouldnt dig her!

and dont waste money on a gym! Just do 50 pushups a day and go for an hour long walk every night. You will see results in DAYS. You dont need to pay some big fancy establishment so you can use their fancy devices which perform the exact same function that you can get naked, alone, with a floor. you have everything you need already as you are to get (1) fit (2) laid.

 

women are pretty simple when i comes down to it, all you gotta do is be real with them. its hard somtimes but they love a man who is okay feeling vulnerable, instead of trying to hide himself.

 

anxiety is just a psychological thing, which u can overcome naturally. lsd is very psychological and thus u can feel as if u can take power of ur brain and choose not to be anxious anymore.

i meant that anti-depressants can fix the issue permanently.

mdma is also quite psychological, i found that i made some revelations after doing pills also.

just remember lsd can also cause alot of anxieties. and remember that once u take that first dose, u have jumped into the rabbit hole. like pandoras box once u see it, it is not easily forgotten.

once u do acid once it is hard to imagine life without this 'amazing' substance.

anti-depressants can PERMENATLY help train ur brain with anxiety, depression, premature ejactualtion.

but there are positives and negatives no matter which path you take.

 

I have to say I'd HEARTILY recommend the "go outside and do shit" exercise routine. I started going running every day the day I quit smoking cigs (1.5 months ago! woot!) and now I can run 2+ miles without dying, and I've added pushups/pullups to the routine (I run to a park with a pullup bar). I can see my abs when I come out of the shower, something I've never experienced before.

The real awesome thing, is how exercise is a sort of natural meditative process, and how that process floods your brain with endorphines which are a natural anti-depressant and generally make you feel good.

 

yea i always have more confidence if i excercise more. but i mean you shouldn't let just a little bit of insecurity spiral you into a lot of insecurity. when you start feeling a little insecure just realise it, and find out why. it's perfectly natural to feel insecure. by feeling insecure about feeling insecure you can really do yourself in.

 

I guess one can put there security in themselves or something else.

 

yes! the more i go outside and do shit, the better i look, the better i feel, the more i want to go outside and do shit! its such an incredible cycle, and all it requires from you is for you to have the will to go outside and do shit for those first few times. then the results will be motivation enough.

 

I am always outside exercising. And yeah i have done push ups and pull ups like every day for years now, and i still have friends with muscles twice as big as mine because they go to the gym and lift weights. Seems like a good way to get muscle to me.

 

doin push ups/pull ups are gonna get u cut. lifting weights is gonna get u bigger

 

Iam now thinking about excercising like that and quitting ciggs...Or atleast lowering down my intake....Iam allright with smoking a little weed tho

Its going to be a great day that iam able to look at myself all toned and not looking like a on the couch watching tv fanatic lol

 

Do it man, you will feel so great!

Cold turkey's the way to go, the physical withdrawal only sucks for 3 days, fill those 3 days with something you like, and get a tin of altoids or gum or something for the oral cravings, and just stop.

Whenever I got an unbearable craving, I would either: start running and not stop until I couldn't run anymore, have sex, or hit stuff with drum sticks. All 3 methods worked well for making me forget about cigarettes. Meditation too if you're into that of course.

Quitting cigarettes, while not even a little bit fun, is one of the easier things I've ever done: all you have to do is not smoke cigarettes.

If you can make it a month, you'll wonder why you ever wanted cigarettes to begin with (and that's a great feeling).

Also: I started smoking weed on a non regular basis since quitting cigarettes, while I'm not terribly enthusiastic about being a weed smoker, weed can help at times. (also, exercising high is the shit)

 

I'd always wondered if someone quitting cigs could get some use out of those vick's inhaler tubes that ppl use when they roll. It's got the same shape and you"re actually inhaling vapors.

exercise is the shiznit. I just branched out from doing the elliptical at home and now I'm a freak at the gym. I find that each time is like a mini rebirth, highly meditative. and then dipping in the hot tub and losing myself to the bubbles...The best is just walking through a hilly, forested park with some ganj, listening to the birds and trees. (not that I recommend weed if you're trying to quit cigs)

 

Noxnocturm. The thing about LSD vs mushrooms is. LSD will not put you back together unless you want to go back together. This might make LSD radically more diffucult for you.

If your looking for guidance, go to the mushroom or mescaline. Or hell even salvia. You know after I took a hard rip of salvia the first time I sorted a bunch of stuff out in my life. The natural psychedellics are the ones with the guiding spirits in them. LSD has no spirit in that sense, LSD is just energy.

Cause LSD is going to put you in a situation where either you develop the ability to pull yourself through of your own will during the trip out of dire necessity to do so. Or you continue floating. Which isn't bad. But I feel thats not what your looking for.

Of course though, if you feel theres something in LSD for you. Take LSD. Your intuitions can in a way sense what the substance is going to give you before you take it. So if a certain substance is highly alluring to you, it might be a good idea to listen to that intuition.