Unexpected relief

Update:

A couple days ago it all ended. I didnt end it. He did. yeah im really really upset because He gave me the "you're a great person but I dont think you and i are on the same page...lets be friends" i just simply said to fuck off.

He led me on, he seemed very interested in me so yeah. But to just write me off when he hasnt even met me yet? Its not fair and its stupid

I told him I know you're interested in someone else, thats why you're writing me off and i was right but he says its not going anywhere....

I said you write me off, a person thats interested in you, and you go for the bitch who isnt? ha! thats all men actually!

hes like yeah Im stupid. I told him dont be and just keep an open mind for me, at least ill be somewhat happy

but his friend is just as mad and still says that Im the right one for him, hes just blind and stupid to see it yet

but ironically I been hanging out with a guy I met on the 4th, a lot more now, ever since that happened. i told him what went on and it still bothers me and hes just been such great company and a good listener, with calling him a bunch of names and almost wanted to beat him up... *rolls eyes*

so at least i have someone to chill with for the time being of the healing. thats my gain through all of this I suppose. we hang out every minute we get and opening up to another and wanting and making plans to meet anothers family. we're not dating but what ever happens, happens



^ those are my moods lately lol

 

That sucks, am sorry to hear. Especially with all the work put in =/

Well least you have company, and prolly better off then if he decided to ditch it all for nothing later on down the line. Had sorta the same not long ago with someone, Spent a couple dates with her. Everything seemed was going well and all... then was told that she wanted back with her old BF that dumped her a long time back ..

Overall didnt live overly close, and if the revert can happen that fast only means the sooner I found out the better in the long run.

 

yeah so its their loss I say. now hes back looking online for women I just dont get it but having company is the best, especially the down to earth company lol. Hes being a great friend and basically telling me to forget about nate and I am. Ive been drinking every night (not heavily) but just chillin with him and its great. Ive been wanting to chill with someone for so long out in this area but no one is like that here but when he moved here, that changed

 

I've been looking for someone like that around here, but haven't had much luck :/ then again everything is rushville over here anyhow.

So it looks like what you have been working hard to have, has found you lol, Can't beat that, unless he is taken or something

 

haha yeah i dont blame you about being frustrated. its small town usa here sooo everyone knows everyone through grape vain

I guess so. I mean hes single but he tells me he doesnt like relationships cause of drama and im like well that depends on the person dear lol but he says im an awesome girl and i get along with his family so well and his family loves me

just a couple days ago he mentioned getting matching or symbolic tattoos together

 

Ok, tattoo thing is kinda random lol, maybe drinking to much

Not sure if it was ever good or bad, but never lived in an area where it was small enough for all to know each other, Hell worked a job in which there was no possible way to even know a decent percentage of all that worked in the same building lol.

But i guess it has it good sides to places like that

Probably doesn't like drama due to past things. I am not into it either, but never got mixed up into such. But all that counts is if you get along and enjoy the time and company. The more time spent only means the more you know the person, which would be much more then you knew of the other guy which ended up just being phone conversatations lol.