turning down sex

ok, one guy was darting his tongue (which he made hard) in and out of my mouth like he was a damn woodpecker... like he was trying to fuck my mouth with his tongue. grossed me out so bad....

 

come visit me, anytime you want, love. i promise i'll make it worth your while. and yes, i agree. i find sex with a man to be somewhat boring. (this is NOT a reflection on jrnyman... he's great, and he's a wonderful attentive lover. hetero sex just isn't as exciting to me).

no, we're not. we gave it a hell of a try, it just didn't work, cause i just need to be with women, and penises freak me out a little. still best friends and roommates though.

eh... she gave ok... nothing spectacular, but not horrible. it was the kissing that bothered me. bad kissing is such a turn off.

 

hmmm.... perhaps i should make a trip to canada one of these days! i'm sure it's cold up there... so can you make sure to keep me warm?

 

what do you think is better with a woman? I'm thinking of getting a female lover.

 

bad kissing. let's see.

bluesafire, i've had the woodpecker kind of kisser too. it's terrible. it was like kissing a snake. gross.

this girl is a bad kisser because her mouth stays really tight and kind of doesn't interact with mine so much as smooshes against my mouth, while the tongue probes. that's just not the way to kiss, man.

 

i suggest everyone goes to canada atleast once, i was gonna be up there this week. In toronto at a tattoo convention however some other things came up.

 

So basically you’re turning down hot teen sex

Do you feel uncomfortable with your body at the moment? perhaps feeling down or sick and just not up for having the time of your life :toetap05:


Hotwater

 

well, obviously i'm completely biased, and i'm not sure i was cut out to have sex with a man, so that could be why i dislike so many of these things.

but to me, sex with a woman is way more intimate. i really like to switch, so it's possible for the receivee to totally focus on only pleasure, and the giver can focus completely on the pleasuring. to me, that's the ultimate... i can't really feel completely satisfied when i'm on the receiving end if i'm worried about pleasuring someone else. though mutual fucking is lots of fun too from time to time.

i really like finger fucking honestly. it's so.... sensual. the fingertips are amazingly sensitive, you can feel the inside of your lover's body in a very intimate way, and vice versa. makes for better orgasms, i think.

also, i find that sex with a woman tends to be much less "to the point." with a man, it feels like a rush to a finish line and then you're done. or at least he is, whether you are or not. women are multiply orgasmic, so sex sessions can last forever. and i think there's much more emphasis on foreplay. the thing i didn't like about hetero sex was that after 5 or 15 minutes of foreplay (which i consider to be the ultimate pleasure, cause for me that's the most intimate form of sex), then we get down to business and then 10 or 20 minutes later it's over, and that's considered a pretty decent length sex session. i often felt very frustrated, just because i really like to just spend hours playing with each other's bodies. men seem to be very orgasm centered, and i always felt like i needed to boost his ego by cumming for him so he felt like he was doing good. i cum easily, so it worked out ok.... but it's just more comfortable for me with a woman.

i find it much easier to know how to give and receive pleasure with someone who has the same bits as you. i don't know how the hell to make a cock feel good... doesn't seem to take much, and then the party's over. but women... it's like an infinite mystery. everyone tastes different, responds differently, is "organized" differently, has different turn ons, and it's like a puzzle trying to figure out how to get them going...

but now i'm babbling. lol... obviously, i LOVE women, and everything about them, and i could just talk about this all day, haha!

 

yes, it is hot teen sex. i know. i feel like i must be crazy for NOT doing this.

i actually don't feel that bad about my body at the moment. i just really don't like the girl, and i'm apparently moving into a phase in my life where i want connection. good god, is it too much to ask for a connection with SOMEONE? doesn't have to be a lifelong connection... it can be a one night stand connection... just someone that i actually feel good about sleeping with.

i just can't get over the bad kissing. oh well, whatcha gonna do? :toetap05:

 

canada is badass. i suggest stratford, ontario. or if you like camping, theres tons of amazing places. algonquin provincial park is awesome for a canoe trip.

 

aw NTH, that sounded so sweet

you're making me question my sexuality

 

ok, the woodpecker tongue thing would be pretty nasty.....


i expect that from my dog, because she doesn't know any better, but from a lesbian??

 

No no you're not babbling. This is awesome! I can tell you're a really good lover. Although I must say that *anyone* can be a good lover (potentially), male or female, it's just most people don't really know what that is, and god forbid you tell them for fear of bruising their ego. lol! I love the slow sensual, explorative love making.. without rushing to conclusion. Maybe women have a better sense of that than men, generally speaking. I love men, I really do, but most of them really don't know how to be a good lover, unfortunately.

 

hehe... you can come over and i'll help you question it some more.

well, she's not a lesbian. she's bisexual, and i think she doesn't have a lot of experience with women, and maybe not much with anyone in general, cause she just got out of a 4 year relationship with a guy she met on the internet when she was 15. i think we just don't have much chemistry, and she needs someone to teach her about sex with women, and i've done enough teaching of strait girls in my life... i'm ready to start dating real women. who've had lots of sex already, with lots of different people.

my philosophy on being a good lover is just to be into it, you know? it's impossible to be a good lover if you're not enjoying yourself. i actually feel somewhat self conscious of my abilities as a lover, because i spent two years feeling like a horrible lover, because things with tim just didn't flow the way i would expect them to, at least not most of the time. it's all about finding the flow, i think.

and dude... you have to talk about what you like and dislike, and if something feels weird or bad, or whatever. yes, sometimes you do find someone who is just so compatible they know without ever asking exactly what you like, and you know for them... but i think that's really really rare. besides... if you're not comfortable talking about sex with them, you shouldn't be having sex with them.

which is why i'm turning down a booty call tonight.

 

lesbian, bisexual,




they both eat pussy and stiffen my cock

 

I think chemistry is a big part of it. I mean... technique can only do so much but chemistry carries a lot of it. Of course without technique the chemistry can't account for all of the enjoyment either. Also I think being comfortable with sexuality in the first place is important, being uninhibited, comfortable with your own body, accepting of all your kinks , etc. And last but not least, being really into your partner. I tend to run hot or cold. Either I'm REALLY into someone or REALLY not. And sometimes I can be slow in getting interested in someone sexually, but once I do I'm very very open and *hot*.

What's really cool too is the nature of the chemistry, cause it varies with different people. Like, with some it seems passion is a big element, with others it's more lust, and with others it's more sweet & tender. So many energies....

 

dude my girlfriend and I would totally have sex with you
and were both very good kissers!

 

welcome to lesbian sex ed here on RT

 

i wondered how long it would take for this thread to get to men thinking lesbians are hot...

but lesbians and bisexuals are completely different. i'm beginning to realize i prefer women who are only interested in other women. because inevitably, almost every bi woman ends up with a man, just because society makes it so much easier and so much more attractive to be with a man.

and yes, i'm somewhat prejudiced against bisexuals, because i simply don't understand how you can be attracted to both sexes and feel like you're happy that way. i'm black and white baby... all or nothing. with the exception of tim, my bestest friend ever, i wouldn't really care if all the men in the world dropped dead.

more power to the women who don't feel like complete crazy lunatics for liking both sexes... and the men who are bi as well. i just don't understand... and i even tried it, lol.

 

EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! that is just so where i'm at. and this chick caries an energy of let's fuck the way lesbians do on porn for strait guys.

just gotta find someone you fit with.