TOTALLY confused! Please help

So where does this leave u? Are u gunna get drunk with him again and see what happens?

 

Not too sure where it leaves me... I mean we will probably get drunk again sometime... but i mean i guess it'll just be a drunk relationship for now! lol

I still don't think I can fully believe that he's truly into girls.

What are your guys perspective on this?

 

He isn't but he is afraid which is reasonable and respectable I wouldn't push it with words just like be there for him and maybe one day he will come around but don't make him ur one and only u still need to play the field

 

Thanks for the advice! And yea, I will let him grow and figure who he is...and maybe just maybe if my wish comes true we can come together in a few years. For now we will remain great friends... but he is going away to college in the Fall so maybe that will give him room to grow. For now it's a "texting relationship" lol


Does anyone else have any advice or comments? I would really like to hear them cause it'll make me feel more comfortable.

 

It seems like for the past few days after we talked...he seems stand-offish...we usually always texted all day until late at night and now that isn't happening anymore. I am actually kind of hurt... it's such a weird feeling...like we were never "together" but i have a broken heart kind of feel. I hope I didn't embarrass him or me. (even though he told me he was perfectly fine after the conversation.) And it seems when we are around people he doesn't give me a lot of attention...but when we are alone together we are perfect and hold great conversations. ughhhh

 

Eh find some one else and just forget about him if he wants u he knows where to find u but u can't be bothered with his games

 

Well it's funny cause he actually texted me first today...so i was kinda happy. But i agree... I should really try and let it go, but it is hard. Like i said before as we grow maybe things will change.

 

U don't need to let go keep him in ur pocket not ur hand

 

I like that! ahaha :sunny:

 

i'm gay and i'm not attracted to every single guy out there. i also like certain specific types. doesn't make me partially gay though.

and yeah, i say find somebody else if he can't figure out what it is he wants. it might take him years to figure himself out. you've done all you can on your part. he knows where you stand, if he wants something more he knows where to get it. it's pointless to go on waiting like this.

 

I don't mind waiting... I'm not looking for anyone else anyway... so if it works out in the future, it works out. Thanks for everyone's advice. I just going to see how it rolls out.

 

Why not look him in the face and tell him ya love and care for him


Sounds like he is feeling unsure how YOU MAY FEEL,why not be brave and make the first move buddy?



Good luck!

 

But he has a girlfriend.........

 

Ew forget her get yo man man.

 

hahahaaaha thanks!

 

Hmmmmmm have you ever asked him which sex he likes more??

He may have a girlfriend but that doesnt mean anything per say.. (He may REALLY want a guy )

 

Well he's still a virgin.... but he has gotten blow jobs from girls...never a guy....maybe when we get drunk again? aahaaha

 

If u want this man honey when u blow him u gotta put every girl to shame! U gotta get on that dick like no body's business. U gotta take every inch and u gotta swallow every drop ! Some serious practice is in order get urself a hair brush or a broom handle

 

Oooooo and a lil origell on the back of the mouth helps

 

Well hopefully it'll get that far! ahaha