That was the key to everything thanks a lot. You don't get this kind of advice on "how to delay cumming" internet sites and I think it's really wrong and sad. We will get married this summer. Now that this problem is over I feel like we can overcome anything together, I'm really happy. Hope this shows that even on some random internet forum words still have impact and affect people, and that goes for negative posts too. Brudof you look like a great guy. I'll remember you for a long time I think