I'm 18 and I struggle with the same issue. I used to care a LOT about having small boobs. I hated that I couldn't wear what everyone else was wearing and look like they did. After some huge changes in my life and a little bit of growing up fiding out who I am and what makes me happy, I began to accept my body. Not that I really LIKE it, but I accept it. I have also found that the guys attracted to me are SOOOO much sweeter and real than the typical jerk who likes big boobs. So hang in there hun, you will find happiness and a guy who loves you for YOU!!!!
I guy shouldn't be liking you for your boobs or not for the lack of them. If you are only meeting or considering guys who are THIS shallow, you need to do some inner work on your self esteem. What kind of a guy looks at boobs first and doesn't consider the rest of the girl? A LOSER! Look for a sensitive man who isn't a jerkass.
I was prety boobless till I got pregnant at 18 now I have boobs! haha. Don't worry about your boobs. Big boobs hurt anyways. Trust me your better off...
i'd think the latter statement fits more after all, what's so wrong with a loser? im a loser ... bad loser
random thoughts on my big boobs: -i do love them and i get alot of attention from them, but at the same time when i meet some one i think the only reason i get the attention is because of my boobs.(hi, my face is up here...)so then i resent them -it can be a pain in the ass to find clothing and bras that fit or look good.size small doesn't fit the boobs but size medium/large is too big everywhere else. -ultimate humiliation...standing in a fitting room with an 'oops too small in the chest' halter top stuck under your rib cage and you are terrified you will either have to rip the garment in half and then have to pay for it or call for help from the staff to get the damned thing over your boobs... -the backpain is a bitch. -running with them sucks. -its nice to be ogled by some young hottie but having some sloppy toothless old man leer at you 2 seconds later can leave you feeling creeeped out. -the grass is always greener on the other side, i'd rather be smaller...
i'm small (about the same size as you).anyway, it's bothered me at times, but even though i didn't get much attention for my boobs, i got attention for other things. (and yes, there are guys that like em small, they're out there.) my opinion is that it doesn't sound like you would feel much better about yourself, even if you got implants. there would always be "something else". i used to consider implants, and then i realized that i would just find something else to be unhappy about. on a side note, i've had a growth spurt since i got pregnant, (which is nice, hehehe) so if kids are in your future, you may eventually grow some more. your body isn't ever really "finished".
i just turned 17 and got on birth control, not sure if it's from birth control or not, but in 2 months boobs have gotten almost a cup bigger, I can almost fit into a B! I understand yah problem. I promise though, don't worry about ALL the guys, find the right one, better yet, he'll come to you!
If you are defined by the size of your breast then your issues of self go deeper than that. Perhaps it is time to look at that rather than your chest size.
hay, big boobs are a pain in the ass, they make your back hurt, you cant get comphy on your stomach in bed & guys that only go for girls with big boobs are shallow fuckers anyway! many guys like a handful, peite. my bloke says that big boobs sag quicker, nice small peite boobs stay firm & pointy. i'm only a 34a & was very self contious of my boobs for years but what i didnt realise untill i left school at 16 was that blokes were always chasing after me. to make myself feel better in summer when i have low cut tops on are gel bra's i know they can be expensive but they are worth it gel bra's i've found the atlantis bra's are the best, i've had a couple of mine for years & even tho they say dont put in the washing machine i always have & have comeout with out dammage.
I wish I were a 32A. My sister is, and she goes braless everywhere. She never has to worry about bra's when she is wearing tiny strappy tanks or strapless shirts or dresses of any kind. I am jealous.
Men who judge womyn by what they have seen on Pornography are NOT worth your time. You need a better, higher class set of men to deal with. There are PLENTY of men who set their standards higher than how big a girl's boobs are. And what will happen if you do get new boobs? You will be the SAME PERSON! It won't change you at all, you didn't go to college because you were afraid of what people would think about your breasts? That makes no sense. Your new breasts will not eradicate the fear you have about what people think about you. You will still be afraid, only afraid with a huge plastic surgeon's bill. Really, some good therapy would be a better use of your money and time than breast implants. Implants won't change you or your view of the world, therapy will. From your posts you sound very confused and scared. Therapy is the best way to combat these feelings. Mutilating your body is not. Please seek some help, it will do you more good to be able to relate to others without fear. Plastic surgery will not be able do that at all. In fact, people who expect TOO MUCH from plastic surgery (meaning they think that their personalities will change and that ALL the people around them will change how they treat them, simply because of the new "look" tend to get MORE depressed after the surgery. These are the people that plastic surgeons PREY on, as they try to convince you that you need more and more surgery to feel good. (Look at Micheal Jackson as a person who has lived like this.) You need to be able to RELATE to other people. And big breasts are not going to do that for you.
you know, even those who others think look "perfect" still have issues with their bodies...I work with an absolute beautiful girl, not only is she a wonderful person, she's got exactly what society says is beautiful--big boobs (natural!), a little body, blonde hair, and a pretty face...and you know what? she wishes she would gain some weight and lose some of her boobs...so i guess maybe it's not all it's cracked up to be?
you know... there is NOTHING wrong with being an a cup.. trust me. but just so you know... i was an A cup at age 17, well, between A and B and now im 24 and im a C.
sheesh. i caught just as much hell for having huge boobs as flat chested girls did for being flat. anyway, titties is titties. i can't think of a single man who isn't just plain thrilled to see or touch them no matter what size they are. some have preferences for big, some for small. but so far as i can tell, as long as it has a nipple, that's good enough. (i myself prefer the very small boobs, they're so sensitive!) look at it this way, at least you can get away with wearing adorable little tank tops. if i wear them, people treat me like a hooker.
I know about silocone or other implants (I have got a pair myself): you get a scar, quite a big one actually, usually under each boob. That means that if you have a bikini, a short top, it will show, and you will spend lots energy worriyng if it shows, if other can see it. And I can say i REGRET having done the operation, I was 19, very upset because a guy i liked a the time, liked girls w quite big ones. (but, this was 14 yrs ago, & I would NEVER go aout w a guy like him, there are some things that get better w age, u get smarter, it's true!) Remember that you'll have to renew the operation every 10-15 yrs, can u afford that? (and think of all the scars) The pain after the op: horrible, they cut your muscles so they can put the silicone UNDER the muscle= i was abusing painkillers, and started enjoying it, after, just to get high. AND, most of all, it's about setting example for all the other girls!!! If you do an op, other flat chested girls will get envious of u, and want to be like you. You, all of us, have a responsablilty! I know so many girls who are flat, skinny, and who have got great, beautiful lovers! Another thing: small tits are usually more sensitive, and will usually not sag so much as u get older. AND: you will get more bad looks from girls, more envy, more bad vibes, more competition... It's really not a good way to make friends, u will actually get a lot of bad talk behid you back. The worst age for a thin gilr is under about 20. The guys want big boobs. But often, later on the girls that nobody noticed, will blossom later and become the popular ones. Have patience, your time will come if you allow you TRUE personality shine through. I am thinking of removing completely my implants, i don't have the money now, but later. The problem for me is that the WRONG kind of guy get attracted to me, because of my boobs (they do look quite natural w clothe on). I want a guy who likes ME. Please, do not operate implants!!!! You will win more if you have the patience to find out who u really are. THEN you will find TRUE love.
Im a 32AA and I love it! I dnt have to wear a bra... and they are still perky... and big boobs make you hurt... or at least Ive heard... even when Iw as preagnant I was only a 32 a... but you know what boobs dont define beauty... its all about personality sweety... and you seem like a nice girl... and as for guys... I have one that doesnt care about how big or smaall my boobs are... tehy are out there you just have to be patient... I hope you feel better about yourself soon... because life is a lot better when you have a bit of self esteem... so cheer up and be proud of your body no matter how it is.
My current partner has now got little boobs, but for a long time, she literally had none. Flat chested was the literal description, and it is only the fact that she has gained a lot of weight that she has any now. Still, they are not bra material. I love her body. Sure, the media hypes big ones, but my preference after having checked out many different sizes is little ones. The big ones are fun at first, but to me they are more of an adolescent novelty. My friend had a reduction done, and she is so happy now. Plus, you will have a much easier time playing tennis.
I wouldn't worry about your bra size. In my own personal experience - I've been with women of all different shapes and sizes. What made me attracted to all of them had nothing to do with how big or small they were. It was their confidence. I don't care about any of the poster girls for boob jobs that society prances around. Give me a girl who knows she's pretty (and *why* she is pretty) everytime. One of the most beautiful women I know is downright flat chested. But almost every guy I know - wants her. It's because she is confident in who she is. And that is sexy. You won't find the beauty you are looking for in a big bra size.
