Time-out

Like I asked before what where you fighting about when he decided he wanted to take a break. It is hard to know anything unless you know the whole story. Everything you write is very vague. If it all a matter of trust you are the only one that can determine if you trust him or not. People on this forum don't know him and would really have no idea if he was trust worthy or not. Maybe you should ask him to go out with you somewhere and talk to him in person.

 

agreed. some men are lying scum that will cheat on you and tell you with a clear face that they arn't and never would.

Is he one of them? there's no way to know. But personally I wouldn't be reassured by just that. A break that long? months? In my mind I would suspect shit, but I'm not perfect and maybe I shouldn't serve as your example.

Actions speak louder than words. But you don't know his actions while on break. Sounds like the perfect setup for lying scum.. but then again he may be telling the truth.

hard place sister. hard place.

 

Actually our fights are mostly over trivial matters. The only reason why it always blown out of proportion is cause we both have unresolved issues. Past fights are always being dug out in every new fights that we had. So we end up fighting about things that are already over on top of the new fights. Ridiculous, i know.

I've mentioned a lot of time to him that this is the problem that we had but he just refused to come to terms with it. Now out of sudden, he wants to have a time-out.

He's blowing me hot and cold and seriously i dunno where do i stand. One moment he'll text me saying that he miss me but he wants us to take this time to reflect on our mistakes. Then the very next day, he'll just ignored me totally. He's just giving me mixed signals.

Anyway maybe i just sit back and see what happens. If we are meant for each other, fate will bring us back together. Thanks to all that reply to my thread and giving ur honest opinions and advice. I really appreciate it!

 

If he is really serious about taking a break them take one. Go out with your friends have fun take advantage of being single and have a good time. That doesn't mean you should go sleep around just go do things that you want to do and if you want to fool around with a hotty then go a head. He is the one that wanted to take the break and you should take advantage of it.

 

He's playing you girl. He has to be. If he really wants a break he doesn't need to be playing that game with you! hot and cold, talk to you or not, miss you then don't care. I've seen that before. I've heard those lines before. Dump him and run. He does not have good intentions.