This post for guys only: What women really want.

Heyy..I resent that.​

Hahaha​

 

You want women to want you? Open your wallet, Oh and you better have a lot of 100's in there, because as my experience dictates is this: WOMEN WANT MONEY, NOTHING MORE. I say fuck em! I'm staying single forever.

 

LOL don't give up on women yet my friend ... but you do have a point ...

 

how does he make a point, sorry not all women want money, i make my own and dont need anyone elses...

 

i thought you said you were poor?

 

yeah, but i dont take and or want other peoples money...i am very independent, and like to keep it that way...i do just fine on my own...

 

Yes he makes a point ...


You don't see too many ladies lunging fo rthe dinner-check, and the prettier they are the less they lunge.

These days most young women make the same as most young men, so it is hard to justify why the guy should always pay.

It's different if you are a rich guy, in that case go ahead and be generous and pay for everyone, men included. I know a really rich guy and we go to lunch every so often and I actually had to force him not to pay, just once.

That aside there are a lot of women who see men only for their income, and still a lot of women who judge men by their possessions. I will also agree there are many women who don't care about money, but they are a minority.

 

this post angers me too much to make a reply...

 

damn straight! *giggles*

 

well i kno as a pisces girl; we can see right though a fake guy an i actually fall for the myserious types. i have fallen in love twice in my life (okay, im just 16 but still) and neither one of them had alot of money, attraction was to other things like smile, sence of humor, intencety, personality. most important thing would be honesty, even if its brutal (i guess thats why i love scorpios)
if a list of donts, from a pisces prosepective, it would definatly include
- dont act like you like me if you dont
- cockyness
- guys who pick on other weaker ppl to make themselves look good- any actions that portray you really dont have any depth or self-power withen yourself is just not cool
- be SEXY!!!!!!!!!!!, and by this i mean have pride in how you want to dress and show you are clean and care about your body
- dont try to hide yourself and dont be silent and withdrawn to me, cuz thats a turn off
- dont touch me....unless i let you

*in short, if you have a mask, it wont work on a pisces woman. we can see right though it and there was no hope for you in the beginning.....

 

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Originally Posted by Zanman
Yes he makes a point ...


You don't see too many ladies lunging fo rthe dinner-check, and the prettier they are the less they lunge.

These days most young women make the same as most young men, so it is hard to justify why the guy should always pay.

It's different if you are a rich guy, in that case go ahead and be generous and pay for everyone, men included. I know a really rich guy and we go to lunch every so often and I actually had to force him not to pay, just once.

That aside there are a lot of women who see men only for their income, and still a lot of women who judge men by their possessions. I will also agree there are many women who don't care about money, but they are a minority.


this post angers me too much to make a reply...
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chill out, though it may not apply to you, there are a large amount of women like that in the world, and to say that they dont would be a lie. but personally that whole situation doesnt bother me, cause i usually pay anyway. thats just the kind of guy i am, unless of course the woman insists, then i will let her.

 

haha i agree i shouldnt have even posted the statement with im too angry to make a reply was sorta pointless..

But i just hate when they say ALL women, ya know.. Cause I love nothing more than being independent and not taking a cent from anyone..
And you can also say that about some men aswell, its not just women, men can be gold diggers too....

 

i don't know what you're talking about, women "just can't walk up and ask for a date." every date i've ever gotten that wasn't arranged by a third party (of which there were 2) was initiated by me. i just didn't have the time of patience to wait around. life is too short.

 

1 Eye contact. Important. Any serious eye contact twice you are in. Do not hesitate.

i'm in the habit of maintaining eye contact with the people i'm talking to, unless it makes them uncomfortable. this does not mean i'm going to sleep with them. so, i disagree with this point.

2 If the lady hugs you fully, I don’t mean that lame half-hug your auntie does, but the full genital to genital, you’re in. Do not hesitate, she wants you. (If your auntie does the full hug e-mail me ... maybe your auntie and I would hit it off ...)

okay, this is fine. i generally don't allow physical contact with people i don't know well, so in the circumstances of a date, this probably means i'm ready to get it on.

3 If the lady ever shows any underwear to you, bra or whatever. Women ALWAYS know how they look from all directions in the Universe, who’s looking at them and what they are thinking, and they can FEEL you looking at them. Any underwear flash and you are in man. Do not hesitate for one damned second and please e-mail me the result!!!

sorry, i have never been good at paying attention to other people or what they're looking at. i'm too self centered. so i disagree with this point. also, some women are just so used to being looked at that they just don't care anymore. my sister-in-law is a good example. she's a pretty blonde. everyone looks at her all the time. she no longer pays attention. she does not want you.

4 If the lady is always in your view for some strange reason (hmmmm how could that be?) that she happens always to be in your view YOU ARE IN! Do not hesitate hombre!

could be coincidence, and you COULD be entirely too aware of her, therefore it SEEMS like she's trying to be seen by you, when in fact she doesn't know you're there. i've noticed a couple times where my actions have unintentionally put me in the path of a man i find terribly unnattractive, and i have become extremely uncomfortable. just bad circumstances.

5 If the lady always seem to be playing with her hair while you are looking at her, you are in Holmes. Do NOT hesitate trendsetter!

or you could be making her terribly uncomfortable, and she's fidgetting.

6 If the lady is putting on lipstick in front of you and making it obvious, or any other of her makeup (ladies count makeup as a private thing so she is signaling she wants you to be part of her private life). Do not hesitate and it will be lipstick on your dipstick!

you've gotta be kidding me.

7 If the lady dresses like you would if you were a woman she probably shares your taste. Don’t hesitate man!

okay. i'll leave that alone. makes sense.

8 Now you have followed Zanman’s advice and have the lady of your dreams in your arms for CHRIST’S SAKE SLOW DOWN! Ladies want to be gently wooed man, not have some idiot with his cock swinging around and dancing about like an ape. The lady will let you know … let her take the lead. SLOW DOWN MAN! Let her purr ...

not always true. all women are different.

9 Most important. Never ever, EVER abuse the lady! If you even think of abusing the lady with language or action you will become Badman and Zanman will find and punish you!

okay.

 

and i like my men exuberantly manly. you call it macho, i call it fun. it's not pretending. but i find men who are pretending to be worshippers of females to be patronizing and annoying. we are not superior, we are equal. pedestals do not suit me, do not try to place me on one, i'll laugh in your face.

 

Well the man said, "Whatever gets you through the night, is alright, it's alright". Whatever is fine with Lennon is fine with me.

I am not trying to make out I am some god who understands everything about women, just maybe throw out a few pointers to my brothers (maybe a few sisters LOL) that I have seen in the past to be true.

But really, if you are a female commenting on my post you really need to give us an indication of your uh, level, based on the age-old guys' scale of one to 10.

Now if you are a one or a two ... well uh ... uh ... well we note your opinion, thank you, and, um, we'll call you ... right ...

On the other hand if you are a seven or above we are ALL EARS listening to your beautific poetic discourse, and OF COURSE we will buy dinner ...

 

i've done pretty damn good with dating in the past, i'm beautiful. it's probably why i get annoyed with men acting goofy to get into my pants. dont' be a dork, women are all different, and the best way to "get" one is to talk to her like a normal person.

 

Dude, the way you say it is quite funny. Cool.

 

im not cocky but confindent - im definatly a beutiful person, i have been told that but i feel it on most of all and take care of every part of my body
and sorry to the girls here but i can see if guys dont want the opion of girls they see as ugly or w.e

 

guys, does it REALLY irratate you that much when a girl cant initiate to ask for a date?
if so i must admit to being like that- i cant explain it but its such a good feeling when a guy comes up to you especially when your into them and its such torture to want to go up to a guy but you cant stop imagining him saying "huh, yea...whatever"
ouch! its so confusing......