This makes me so mad..

Moonjava seed, I'm so happy for your friend Amber. Can you tell us what changed StepAsshole's mind??

 

Wait a sec...how is this humanly possible????

 

I'm so sorry, but this is bullshit!! A man can't have any idea what it is like to sit in a pad of blood all day, none at all!!! Should a mother have the right to tell her son what kind of underwear to wear?? I don't think so. Not any more than a MAN (father or not) has a right to tell a woman how to take care of her body. And like it or not, biologically the girl is now a woman. She needs to learn how to take care of her body the way she feels is right. I can only imagine this man must feel some great disgust at the thought of anything entering his daughters vaginal canal, but yet here again, that is none of his buisness. HOw bout that?

 

well i helped her i guess and so did everyone here (except the opposing sides....... ) by letting her know what everyone here had to say...and she just walked up to him and told him everything and just let him have it. and she won.

she told me to tell everyone thanks.

 

this has got to be the silliest argument for any man to defend the actions of this stepfather. I dont think even the biological father should have any control over whether she uses tampons or whatever. That is NOT a parents realm as far as i'm concerned. Birth control yes..tampons NO!

 

Ugghh, as a womyn that came from a broken home and had to deal with numurous people trying to act like parents and control every little thing I did, this post infuriated me. He needs to mind his own business. What a jerk.

I really feel sorry for your friend. Her mother needs to get a spine and tell him that he has no business dictating things of that nature. Grrr...sorry, this just sparks a nerve with me.

 

Okay, so looking at a few posts above mine shows that your friend won with her stepfather. Way to go! My first post with a bit late! *lol*