This is exceptionally embarassing, and will likely make most guys sick. tough.

dude, the message may have been there, but it was lost in the delivery. As far as the 'trolling fake', think what you like, Yeah, I made it public, but I didn't make it public to be called a lovesick stalker.

Up until the last line, I was willing to admit that I'd been too harsh to you, however, that went completely out the window.

The 'fuck off' in case you missed it in the context, was in the event that you were being obnoxious intentionally to feel like more of a man. Since you claim you weren't, I was willing to give you the benefit of the doubt.

You come in here, act as though your total masculine self image is offended, you call me a liar, and then say that my 'moral high ground' is destroyed.

There are two things I don't do. I don't lie, and I refuse to kill anything I'm not going to eat. Calling me a liar is as offensive as me calling you a castrati, which, judging by your wounded manhood for me having the balls to speak back to you bluntly, as a man, is likely true. I refuse to engage in any more battles of wits with the obviously unarmed and defenseless. As a matter of fact, you are now completely and absolutely beneath my notice.

And, for a final note - Bless you, and may you have a happy life filled with everything you want.

 

What a silly argument. You're both acting like assholes.

 

agreed, that's why I've simply used the ignore button, so as not to be bothered continuing this idiocy.

I have better things to do, like eating dinner, doing laundry and changing the catbox.

 

Dude, you are a liar, i just hope you you're not also lying to yourself as well.

See the thing is man you haven't "offended my masculine image" or anything geez, i have had feminine homosexual friends not your typical manly man by a long shot. You haven't offended me period, to understand what i am saying this is important.

I just think you're posting that crap because you know some women are going to die for it, i doubt it is completely honest, you yourself have mentioned how harsh love can be. Yet in your 30's having loved and lost you sound like you've just fallen in love (yes i can actually relate to what you're talking about!) but you are speaking generally, NOBODY opens themselves up that quick ESPECIALLY men UNLESS they are love sick or obsessed.

So call me castrati (funny how when the debate starts YOU'RE THE ONLY ONE who brings in masculinity into it, you feeling where i am comming from now??) and ill keep calling you a liar.

And if i am below your notice then how should i recieve a blessing from you? I can't, it is corrupt i dont want it anyway.

 

Asshole? you can think what you want but i am perfectly comfortable posting my opinion and defending my right to it if people want to turn it personal.

 

I dont see the problem in being love sick. Or explaining why he feels the way he does.
Certainly this site isnt for match making. And Im sure thats not his intentions.

While sure given the fact he uses that user name for communication, others males and females can openly read it. Along with his reasons he cant come to work today.. LOL.....
But cause B25late.. Is very good with words, Id pick a argument with him wisely.

I myself coming out of a 4 year relationship..
Nothing but wasted years.. But Im just passing through this thread..
But totally agree on the postive life changes, taking new things into new perspective and moving in a healthy direction. And not in the same frame of mind that the other relationship was in. If the last relationship was shit.
Use that shit to blossom the flowers of a new realtionship.. Life is a growing and learning process.

I think many a man can learn a little bit about themself from the OP.
As we can all learn from eachother..
It your not openly social and cant actually talk publicly about
what you love and hate. Well then you cant quote FREE speech..

Good luck with thread though..:cheers2: slow down on the personal attacks please. .

 

you've never met some one truely love sick! i have and that can be scary!

Then you need to expand your perspective on the situation, there is no need for fear here, my ego though here is not easily hurt by internet debate, you'd have to strike some sort of nail on the head... AND THAT would truely be a blessing.

I think most males reach the OP's maturity level around puberty, which is what is so damn intriguing about all this!

Whats all this Jazz you slapped on the end about free speach (yes i spell it with an A by choice) ? did he not get a chance to post what he wanted? or to reply? or even reply again? did i discourage him from saying what he wanted? no... i simply said what i believe.

 

Do you always butcher the english language?
You also got the chance to say what you wanted.

I dont know what situation your telling me to expand upon?
Is it the personal attacks or the fact that he might be able to express himself in ways you cant.

key word is thinks.
Define maturity?

 

I don't think that was his intention (actually i know from previous posts that it wasn't), but it sure turned out that way. Oh if i were only a woman!! *swoons*
... just let the guy be adored why not, he's got special hands after all!

Yeah man, you write really well ... you do make me laugh sometimes.

I agree. This is what it's really about. - Learning to love ... better and wiser. How can we not express love when deep at our core, love is what we are.
Call it poetry.

But Xac ... i like the praetorian shield though

 

Only when the language needs improving, im like Shakespear do you also make sensibile modifications or was it an inability to use the English language at all?

no, it is the fact you think i need to be weary... some one needs to find real life friends... [/quote]

"I think there for I am" is the only thing i can know, so sure it is my opinion but where i am from even the bankrupt can afford 2 cents.

Define maturity? ok in the context i used it in i will explain. the original post reminds me of when i was say 13 or 14 and had my first MAJOR crush and "LOVED" some girl. That whole worship mentality, it isn't love and it isn't real and something most Men went through during puberty, understand?

P.S. i really don't care for your observations on the english language, perhaps you should clean up your own grammer... i mean unless you like looking silly.

 

Thank you, but what shield? yeah i know i am being a smart ass... but it isn't the shield just the Chi-Rho, no sheild behind it in my sig

 

Yeah thats real smart actually ... i had no idea about that. I had associated it soley with the praetorian shield (insignia, heraldic ect).
Well i've learned something else new today

.. oh, language is a thrown together, hit and miss kinda thing anyway.

 

Orison, LL, don't worry over him. He simply doesn't know me is all. And from the sound of what he had to say before I put him on my ignore list, probably not interested in knowing me, simply defeating me, so it's likely best to simply ignore him and let him say what he wants. All he'll wind up doing is demonstrate to the world how closeminded he is, and how much he buys into the societal programming of 'the ideal macho man'.

Hardly worth bothering with, or even acknowledging, is it?

 

Dude you are so backwards, i cant WIN, this isn't a game, it is teach and learn, a discussion but of course you are too close minded to even LISTEN to my opinion, i am much more open minded it seems purely by demonstration.

You know what? what does masculinity have to do with this? have i once called you feminine or any term at all that is remotley close to challenging your masculinity? No, not at all, however you CONSISTANTLY challenge mine, so maybe you should consider your own programming, i have had enough of this conversation.

So to all who react emotionally and don't want to put any stoic thought into anything, just go on pretending you're open minded, it makes you sound cool...

 

oh, go away...you're harshing my feelgood buzz.

 

I cant tell if you're being sarcastic, so if you are; good work you got me if not; you are welcome, the Chi-Rho is one of my all time favourite symbols

 

Hmmm, well I hate to go against the grain of the females that has surged through this thread, but that sounds a little scary and suffocating to me. A little romance every now and then is alright, but moderation is always best.

 

I agree, part of 'romance' is knowing when to step back and just leave well enough alone.

Some girls love it, some don't, and that has to be kept in mind.

I can see your point, ramona.

 

No. No sarcasm, genuine interest. I spent a good while reading about the Romans ... just never looked any deeper as to the meaning of that symbol.

 

Never mind. After reading the entire thread, I think somethings just not quite right.