This is a pretty big one

hitting girls is wrong jsut hold the whiney bitch down until she chills out. hitting dogs is wrong tho so maybe hire a chick friend of urs to kick her ass!!

 

I was just thinking about it, and people are always saying "don't hit girls" but, girls are supposed to be are equals. Even though it is bullshit, I never hit a girl I was even kneed in the balls by this one chick, I did not raise a finger. The thing is she is my sister (that is a helluva a lot different) and I did it out of discipline, I believe in the old fashioned way because it worked on me and is the only thing that works on my sister. The thing in question was if she did hit me with that plate (the shitty ones that shatter easily) I think i might of really hit her and maybe even beat the shit out of her. I put this confession on to raise some interesting conversation and to find someone to talk to about it and most of you are making me out to be some kind of monster.
If anyone doing the "she's a girl" shit, in here doesn't have a sister they should shut tp right now. If you guys, do have sisters and you haven't hit them once, I am fuckin' amazed. You people also have to understand that my dad is dead. He was an abusive drunk and i unlike my little sister know what that is like, I would never hit her in an abusive way (and trust me there is a huge difference.) If she did hit me with that plate it would not have been abusive but an actual fight.
And, yes I have gotten into fights with other guys, won a few lost one (probaly around 3-1), but that is completely irrelevant in this conversation.
Headymoechick, thank you for your honest reply. I wanted to tell you about the chair, the reason I care is because my family can't afford a new chair every month and my sister is always ruining the furniture, we live on a tight one source income.

 

chill the fuck out, kid. how about trying to be reasonable; a more appropriate response would be something along the lines of, "hey, get off the arm; it's going to break", instead of immediately hitting her and swearing. obviously she's going to be mad; anyone would with that kind of treatment! she's not an animal. if i fucked up and someone immediately let me know by hitting me and swearing, i wouldn't just say, "oh, thanks.. yeah, i didn't notice." would you? you're disrespectful, not to mention abusive, and you're asking for a fight. then you have the gall to call your sister a bitch!

i assume you're her older brother? sounds like you're doing a bloody great job of role-modeling so far.

yeah, i have a thought. go take some anger management courses.

 

you're 15; she's..... how old? younger. she is most certainly not your equal. i have a younger brother and he could beat the shit out of me right now if he ever wanted to. likewise, a punch from you hurts her a hell of a lot more than it would hurt someone your own size. get a life.

also, discipline? you're 15! you have no part in disciplining her! i have 3 younger siblings, and while i try to be a role model to them, i know that it's not my place to discipline them. and i'm 21.

 

Do your parents do a good job of disciplining both of you? I noticed you said hitting was how you were taught and it's the only thing that works on her.

So you have learned by example and I don't think anyone here takes that into mind when they are insulting you for hitting a girl. What else can we expect if that is all you know?

I'm not saying you were abused at all! I'm sure you were never hit with any force, but you were taught discipline with smacks and spanks and things of that sort. I just want you to know that there ARE alternatives to hitting and smacking. It would be very hard for you to learn and use that self control, but I would bet it would be worth it. Learn other ways NOW or the problem may stem farther than you think. I'm sure you don't think about kids right now, but ask yourself if you would want to raise a child the same way you were raised. If the answer is no, then your best plan of action is to change. Come up with something else.
You said violence is the only thing that works on her. Yet she continues to be a little brat, so it really ISN'T working. Find a way to take away her privledges.Do something that MEANS something to her. Everybody has a price and you can find a way to barter what she values to get good behavior. Tattle, if you must. (I know I would!!) Does she like to sit and talk on the phone? Take it away and when someone questions you, tell them exactly why. Unplug the TV or make her leave the room until she can come back and act like someone who deserves to sit there and watch TV. She breaks chairs? So don't let her sit there. Make her sit on the floor until she can respect furniture. Don't let her interact with the puppy.
If your parents question you, it would not be hard to explain that she is misbehaving, and words nor fists work so you are taking away somehting that means something to her, and when she can act like she's supposed to, she will earn them back. I understand you don't want to step on your parents toes when it comes to discipline, but if they do not step in after physical violence breaks out anyway, you just might HAVE to be the bigger person.

I bet if you try hard (really hard cuz it's tough!) you will find all sorts of ways to prevent her from acting out.
Good luck!!

 

my mom can't discipline my sister (I don't know why, I guess she's too soft) and since my dad is dead I kinda have to do it.
P.S. the cussing has nothing to do with anything, it's just the way I talk, I have a dirty mouth.

 

Good for you! Sisters are bitches!!!! You should have cut her real deep!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Man, Duck, you need to chill out. Then only way you'll get through to your sister is being kind and respectful to her, even if she is doing something wrong. As someone else previously posted, you could have avoided the WHOLE THING if you just said 'Hey (insertnamehere), with you leaning on the arm of the chair like that it's gonna break, it's already bending badly. Don't sit that like, please." And then it all would have been good more than likely. Think before you do something like that.

I am the "little sister" of my half-brother who is about 12 years older than me. We got along really well, becuase we were both always pretty much respectful of each other. Now, my brother did move out when I was 7 years old, but even now when I'm 14 and he's 26, we still have a damn good relationship, and keep in touch as much we can... I couldn't manage a lot of things here without him.

And Awesomepawsome, I hope to God you get the help you seem to need. I hope you know that all sisters or women in general, in this world aren't as you seem to think of them.

Ok I'll stop rambling now...

 

Ok, before I start this post I want to state that I am not a violent person and I do not condone violent behaviour, however.....

When my brother and I were younger we would beat the living shit out of each other on a regular basis. Like you said earlier, there is a big difference between fighting with someone and being abusive. The littliest things would set me, or my bro off and we would just launch into the biggest punch ups. The amount of times that my parents came home to black eyes, bleeding noses and holes in the wall would be impossible to count. There is 2.5 years between the two of us, I am the oldest. I once even cracked my brothers kneecap by accident. My brother was such a shit when he was little - quite obviously he is the favourite child and I had a lot of resentment towards him because of it, so when he got things that I didn't, or was allowed to do things I couldn't I would hurt him, cos I guess in someway it made me feel better, and he would hit me cos he knew he could get away with it. Beleive me it often took alot of self control to stop. One time he pulled a stunt that almost left me blind in one eye and had I had the ability at the time, I am sure I would have come close to killing him!

The point is though that we are now the best of friends. We talk to each other everyday and hang out together all the time, we have all the same friends, and we are each others confidants. Sibling rivalry is natural, I fully expect that if I started shit with my brother, or with any other man for that matter, they will fight back. Maybe thats just me, but I don't expect to be able to kick a man in the balls and walk away knowing that he won't hit me back.

 

flowerchild, that is a much bigger age difference, your experience does not apply to me at all
AwesomePawsome, you're a jackass

 

It's still the same thing in sorts. My brother could have been a real big asshole if he wanted too, but because he was nice to me, we got along great. Maybe if you showed your sister a little more respect and didn't bitch and swear at her for every little thing (an with every little thing she did was POLITE to her and told her what she was doing wasn't acceptable) maybe she woudln't be hurling dog bones halfway across the room aiming for your head and you wouldn't feel the need to beat the shit outta her.

 

What's the difference between hitting a girl and hitting a weak guy? All these women are fighting to become equal to men, yet they don't want us to fight them, like we would an equal man.

 

12-03-2004 04:05 PMAwesomePawsomeGood for you! Sisters are bitches!!!! You should have cut her real deep!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



Today 04:41 PMAwesomePawsomeWhat's the difference between hitting a girl and hitting a weak guy? All these women are fighting to become equal to men, yet they don't want us to fight them, like we would an equal man.



Wow is all I can say....

 

you bastard and you little sister to have given that puppy irreversible trauma, i think ill have to take it from you

 

Yes, having a little sister can suck but im going to let you in on a secret. It's impossible to win a fight against them, parents tend to side with the younger weaker one. example: when i have to babysit my sis she does this thing where she screams at the top of her lungs just because she knows it pisses me off. I hit her for doing it once and believe me, it doesnt help. Please dont wine about hanging off a chair, while as we speak my sister has turned her cd player to maximum volume and is playing Nelly at full blast just because she knows I hate that kind of music. Find peaceful ways to retalliate, as soon as im done posting this thread I plan to hook up the new computer speakers (10 times more powerful than her cd player) and blare some Neil Young.

 

what? you're not supposed to hit a girl because your physically stronger. striving for work place equality doesn't mean that men are entitled to hit a woman like they would a man-or at all.

 

I used to beat the living CHRIST out of my sister.
And not only did I make her bleed, I broke her crib.
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eep... duck...

you could have punched your sister a million times and it wouldnt change what happened to make you feel that way in the first place.

the best fights are ones with the mind, never with the body. the body works around the mind.. never the mind around the body..

please please dont ever hit your sister again and why mst physical violence be the only way?

try not to think about the past now, focus on the present and the future because that is where you will make better changes.

 

At first I thought this lil punk needs his ass beat and probably does for going to such an extreme.....but I still remember the days when me and my four year older sister would get into some good ones although not to such an extreme and I was like 9 so its not exactly the same.....but it seems your walking a fine line, what would your friends say if they knew your sorry ass balled up your sis?