Thinking about trying anal...

He's average size and it hurts the most when he first enters, so he's not in too deep. I told you I was weird...

 

Hey minkajane, delicious thread, though I'm really saddened to hear your plight. It almost makes me wonder are there any possible medical issues behind it? Have you discussed any of this with your doctor? Curious. I've read about cases where tissue growth had formed a blockage of sorts in the vaginal opening (I'm not talking about the hymen here, this was something that required minor surgery to correct).

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maybe its something else .. i have gone through periods like that ... where it hurt, do u kinda feel like u have to pee when it hurts?

I found when i'm like that , nothing helps. If your lover is really turning u on, and knows how to use his dick, when does the pain start? Is it a vaginal thing or a mental thing?

If u cant tolerate vaginal i dont think u should try anal because it takes alot of work until u can start to enjoy it ... it has to be really slow. If the guy rushes, he's fucked cause it stops right there. Then u'll be nervous and start backtracking.

 

reverse cowgirl but in your ass?

everytime we tried it hurt so badly...maybe because I maye have some hemorroids
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*sigh* I've explained this about three times. It makes no difference how turned on I am. It usually only hurts when he first enters. Then it doesn't hurt, but it doesn't feel good and I'm sore afterwards.

I've asked about 5 docs about it and only two have even tried to help me. The others think it's psychosomatic. The first doc sent me to physical therapy, which helped with the internal pain I was having. The second basically just gave me some anti-fungal cream and told me to come back in a few months. Don't think that's going to help, especially since it's been going on for four years and I've had antibiotics and been treated for a yeast infection since then, both of which would have killed off any fungal issues I had. Plus, wouldn't I have some other symptoms if I was fungal?

Most likely, it's a form of vulvodynia, but I keep getting brushed off when I bring it up. I'm making a follow-up appointment for sometime in the next couple of weeks, so we'll see how that goes.

 

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