I think the actual question you are asking is which do you think is most sexually attractive. Asking which a person prefers kinda like asking which are you most shallow towards. As for the question, like others as said it is mostly about personality, but the least likely person I would pick is the skinny ones. The skinny ones tend to be skinny for a reason (not all), and have extreme hang ups about gaining weight and so on. I tend to stay in the healthy to chubby areas, which I guess chubby would be the "fat" one you have an example of.
... If you think that girl is too thin then you need a new pair of glasses. Sorry, I looked at the picture and didn't see all the stuff you seem to have made up
I dunno... when you start having 2 belly rolls you enter the obese catagory in my opinion. Not to make excuses, but the definition of obese is "[size=-1]An abnormally high, unhealthy amount of body fat." [/size]
If you don't see it then you don't see it. However, as far as making it up you might consult Bates' Guide to Physical Examination and History Taking by Lynn Bickley it is the standard text and the eighth edition is the new one.
Well, out of those three particular women in the pics, I still stand firmly by what I said earlier; I personally find the one described as "fat" is still the most desirable out of those three. I don't know, it's just that her face is really cute, and she isn't THAT excessively "fat" as far as I'm concerned. Sure, she does seem to be overweight...but so what? Besides, like I said before, it's the personality that is more important, anyway. Personal preferences are just preferences. They are sort of like "guidelines" that can also be disregarded if/when you meet someone who captures your heart who also happens to be outside of your preferences.
Then I'm obese by most peoples standards here.. I'm 5'6 and weigh 215 pounds.. Yet most people I know describe me as chubby and if I were to even use the word fat, most get mad at me.
Well, Weeble... Let me be honest here, but don't react until I finish. You ARE outside my personal preference in how I usually like my girls to look... BUT! I repeat, BUT, I've also seen the pics of you, and really, you look damned good. No lie here. And you know(I hope!) as well as I do how many people you've turned on in this online community. The way I look at it, as long as you're healthy, some extra poundage isn't a big deal. The only way it can be bad is when it starts to cause some physical problems like joint problems and stuff.
word... people on here don't believe me when I say I'm a rounder gal but I'm 5'1" and around 160lbs. I haven't weighed myself in ages, but it's somewhere close to that. I look and feel my best at about 120lbs, so by my books I am over weight (even at 120 I was curvy, not flat tummied, but it was nice) and AT, some of us have joint problems no matter what our weight is... I have arthritis in my hips, doesn't matter what my weight is at the time I still ache when the weather changes or if I stand for a long long time. As long as a gal is happy with herself, weight isn't too big an issue for me. I don't find the extremes particularly attractive - so skinny they're wasting away is terrifying, so heavy that they obvious don't work out or care about themselves (I don't work out frequently, but I do take care of myself as much as I can given time constraints). Same goes for guys, as long as they aren't extreme enough to cause worry in their weight, chances are they're personality will still attract me to them
thick, skinny, or fat? .... yes, please! i like 'em any and every way. honestly, women come in many shapes and sizes, and they are all beautiful. i must say though, out of the pictures you posted, i find the one you labeled 'thick' to be the sexiest of the three
Oh, I get you totally! All I meant was that there ARE overweight girls who develop health problems, and I just mentioned joint problem as an example, that's all. Though, there are other conditions such as high blood pressure and heart problems, and losing SOME weight seems to improve their health. So it's not like I automatically assume all overweight girls have health problems. Anyway, you're FINE! I think you look really good right now, and I think you looked really good back then. You look good regardless. After all, those pics you posted DID have some serious affect on my Jr. I just hope your arthritis isn't causing you too much trouble, though. I get tendonitis every so often, so I can at least get an idea of how frustrating it can be. Yeah, weather change... Ain't that a bitch... lol
Well, if I were to compare myself to the woman in the thread, she's pear shaped and I do in fact have the hour glass shape. I probably have more muscle and less body fat % then her. I'm lucky that I put weight on evenly and am very proportionate for my size. Most people guess me at around 160 - 170 pounds. My ideal weight for my muscle mass and structure, according to my doctor, is 150. So I guess I only look about 10 to 15 pounds overweight even though I'm actually like 65 pounds overweight. If I weighed 150 I'd be a knock-out. As for physical problems. The only problem I have is that my breasts are too large. However that is a combination of being overweight and genetics (my mom is large breasted as well). All my extra weight is in the top half of me. I don't have much muscle deffinition in my top half which if I toned up, even if I didn't lose much physical weight, my fat % would go way down. Then you look at my bottom half. No fat in my calves yet they are huge and minimal fat in my thighs and hips. Most of my excersizing through out my life has been more of a workout on my legs: soccer, bike riding, rollar skating, dancing. Even my job works out my legs. I walk between 3 to 10 miles a day when I'm working out on the road. Hmm. Maybe I need to start doing push-ups, sit-ups and a 5 pound weight to work on my arms. I think I'd lose massive weight. As far as what others think about my weight and what I look like... I don't care all that much (most people care at least a little). The only thing that really bothers me about my weight is the fact that cuter clothes comes in smaller sizes and I also want to be able to go to the store again to buy bras instead of having to order them online.
Actually, you're a lot like a very good friend of mine in how evenly you gain weight on your body. She is really good looking, and has large breasts(not as large as yours, though). She used to do ballet, and she was on the girls' rugby team and wrestling team, so she is musclular as well, but other than that, the way she gains her weight is basically totally even, as in your case. Though I can't reject, I don't necessarily find really bony girls to be that attractive. To me, the fun is when I pinch the bit of meat here and there. I understand that could be embarrassing to some girls, but it's a big turn on for me.
Interesting.. I'm build like an hourglass, or as my friends call me, "The Coke Bottle".. I got a big ass, big titties and a small waist.. (I love my genetics!) Plus I'm 5'10.. I dig it, and I'm considered "obese" by the height/weight chart, but most people don't believe me when I tell them I weigh 210lbs,.. Of course, I used to weight train quite a bit, so I have big muscles in my shoulders and my thighs. Speaking of which, I miss weight training, I should go back to it.
i kinda have the same thing going on, weight training and all. i'm just really short. at any rate, you sound more fun than a carnival ride...
Thanks! I actually had a (few) friends of mine that I've slept with say something along the same lines of that..