The Penis Thread (MERGED)

Thanks for all the replies, everyone. I feel a bit better about the whole thing, but even so.... argh!

Well, at least this has given me some perspective on what women go through when they feel they have to have that perfect, hourglass-shaped body and breasts that are at least d-cup size.

I think our society is screwed up.

In the meanwhile, I guess I'll borrow a book of kama sutra from the library so as to learn some technique.

 

Yup society is screwed up, you are you and please dont try and change you.

As your point said if you where a woman and didnt like the size of your boobs would you get implants?
By the way tablets that say they will make you grow bigger lie, surgery can add a bit more but there are risks BIG risks, not worth it.
People need to relise that everyone isnt the same, big for some is small for others, small for some is big for others - if that makes sense.
And as for technique's you will pick them up naturally without needing to read about them lol x

 

NO!! You might think this is kind of odd, but I dont like big assets (as you so nicely put it) I honestly dont know why, but I prefer smaller ones to those huge flippin' poles. Ig. But honestly, if someone really likes you, they wont give a damn how big your wang is. Honestly.

 

If you can take a piss without getting your balls wet it wouldn't bother me.

 

I saw a documentary about this. They said they can't actually increase its size when erect, they just make it look bigger when flacid. Can anyone confirm/deny that?

 

I dunno but that thing about pissing without getting your balls wet was funny.

 

Dude,

Someone wise has said that being a gay may is like being a traveling salesman: you get more rejected than not...

I am gay man and I have been around a few blocks and for more than just a couple of times

No matter what attributes you have, like in being tall or short, caucasian or asian, big or small, toned or beary, smooth or hairy or whoever: some people will always find you unattractive and they will always exclude you from their dating pools. That's just how the cookie crumbles for absolutely everyone. This is one of the greatest equalizers in the world besides death.

So, do you hold it against the dudes, who say or think: Oups, he is 'too small' for me? Nope, you don't. It is their sexuality and they should be free to enjoy in the way which is most satisfying and fulfilling for them.

You create your own set of criteria and include some and exclude the others into your dating pool. Have fun, be genuine and honest and enjoy your dating...

KD

 

I can understand the frustration though; when you're rejected by someone and then later that night see them going off with someone twice their age and three times their weight with four times as many chins, it's difficult to think "some you win, some you lose" rather than "Holy shit, I must be REALLY ugly".

But I dunno, over size, I've been asked how big I was in a club by someone who had not until that point spoken to me. I had to admit, I didn't know (I didn't actually check until I was 21, which I gather is unusual), and he seemed to lose interest almost immediately.


I see the point about excluding who you want, but I don't think that should make people feel like it's the luck of the draw whether you get any affection or not. While yes, some people will be looking for something specific, and will be rejecting you offhand to avoid wasting your time as much as theirs, there are plenty of guys out there who are just plain rude about it. (These people haunt gay bars because we default to "tolerant", and because they would be totally unacceptable anywhere else.) Be aware that you don't have to put up with discourtesy, and certainly don't let it get to you.

I don't know, I guess the point I'm trying to make is that anyone who seriously has a problem with someone's cock being a little below average (ever noticed how everyone's cock is average size or over? how does that even work?!) is totally not worth the effort. I mean, sure, you might miss out on the odd sizequeen, but how much are you actually missing out on really?

 

wow. honesty to the point of brutality. kudos.

don't let it bother you. as the saying goes, (to add to the already too many sayings dispensed here) "it's not the arrow that matters, but how the Indian hunter uses it."



i have every right to be bothered too,, if it's any consolation

 

I must agree w/ what most of you have already said. Size doesnt matter, its the connection you have w/ someone and when you find the right someone they will love you for who you are not what size ur cock is. If someone is more worried about ur size then you they arent wroth the bother. :bandana:

 

Well, here's my 2 cents:
If you're looking for just sex, or very short term relationships, then size does matter to an extent. It also matters to people who are looking for something specific (like a big cock). However, if that's not the case, then size is far less of an issue. I mean size does help in the very beginning (hence it's usefulness in a very short-term relationship), but once you get to know your partner better it really doesn't matter anymore, unless it's ridiculously small or big and adjusting is very hard.

 

I drive a small car. Does that mean that it is not as good as an SUV? It may not be as attractive or luxurious. But it does get better mileage.

 

I personally don't care that much about a small penis. If I love the guy and enjoy being with him then it doesn't matter how big his pecker is. As Yoda would say: "Size matters not!"

On a lighter note. This is one of Peter Griffin reactions when he finds out he is dwarfed by his son's larger penis.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HktBXY0_0qs

 

Honestly, I don't really care if a dude has a small penis. The way I see it, that kind of makes some things easier.

 

Hiya I think that who you are is more important the the sex so dont worry about it and because it isnt large dopesnt mean you will be shocking in bed. your fine

 

(Thread necromancy!)

Honestly, I'm surprised I got so many replies. Um, I just want to thank everyone who took time to reply, as you've all (somewhat) mollified my fears.

I guess that's all I really wanted to say.

(end thread necromancy.)

 

It doesn't really bother me, I have quite a large cock.

 

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its fine to bring a thread back, providing its added to (which you did) and its not simply bumped
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(Sorry if I said this, but...)

While size doesn't necessarily matter if you're good at sex, I'll be honest: if someone's quite big, I'll cut them a bit of slack in terms of technique and stuff. They might not do the job any better, but they're fun to play with, and I guess an element of "yay, I pulled a guy with a big cock, go me!" pride about it.

 

Hey man, once you're at the point where you've built up enough rapport to get the clothes flying off and your partner, girl or guy, is giving you oral then the last thing that is going to get that partner not to screw you is a small penis, unless maybe it's micropenis, but 4.5" isn't micropenis.

The average is about 5.5-6". There are many guys with 7" penises, that's considered an average size. You're below average, certainly (unless you count Asians, haha jk) but you're still just as average as a guy with 7" (very common, especially on the internet).