Women are intuitive, beautiful, and knowing. I was married 17 years and told my wife I was Bi. Her answer? "I know" We are still together. We agreed on an open marriage and have been going strong for 2+ years. I don't know if your wife will be as cool as mine, but I wish you the best....
Best blow job goes to a random girl in my teens, it was EPIC. Second, my ex girlfriend. Third, an older guy I was with. So I think it depends on how much effort and practise they are willing to put forward, but perhaps a statistic would say guys give better.
I've never had a guy give me head (but I'm curious!), but I had a mistress that gave me amazing head, the best I've ever had and better than my wife by far. A lot of it was that she was just honestly into it, she loved my cock and that kind of enthusiasm counts for a lot. She could take me pretty deep but she would gag a little at the bottom (not that it stopped her from trying) and she would always swallow. But when I gave her facials she was ok with that too! She let me fuck her face, she licked me all over and she told me how much she liked me cock. That's all over and my wife has been trying harder, but partly I think she just has a small mouth. I supposed women have smaller mouths in general. I'm not super hung but I'm a little thick I'd say. She can't take much more than the head, and while you can work around that by stroking it too, it's not the same as watching a wet warm mouth devour your shaft!
I don't think it's fair to say that men give better blowjobs than women...I mean that's such a general thing to say. My first girlfriend gave me the best bj's, better than another other woman or man. My wife isn't really into them, so when she does give one it's such a turn on. On the other hand, the only guy that ever sucked my cock was really into it. His technique wasn't as good as the best I had but he was so hungry for it. So I would say generally that's not fair to generalize about people. Some people (whatever sex) are better at it than others, that's a part of life!
Well all I know is that a guy gave me the most amazing BJ I have ever had. No girl that has given me a BJ has even come close.
My wife just flat out doesnt suck my dick. Like at all. I have been playing with my gay neighbor for 3 months now and he can make me cum hard from a blow job. He keeps sucking me afterwards until I'm hard again and then sucks me until I cum again. On a different note, I hang out with a female coworker on occasion. We were at a pizza bar having a slice and a beer or two. She asked what I was doing once we were done. I said probably going home. She said, "Wanna swing by my place?" I said, "what do you have in mind?" She said, "I'll suck your dick and you can eat me out unless you have a condom and then I would love for you to fuck me silly." Well no condom so I ate her out and then she sucked me off. Again, didn't take me long at all and she swallowed.
I think it would depend on the people involved. I really can’t answer the question, because it has been so long since a woman has given me a BJ. It sucks when the wife doesn’t. 25 years and she has only done it twice :bigcry: .
I've been told many times I give better head than their girlfriend it.or wife. Plus, all they have to do is walk in, pull out their dick, and it gets sucked. And their cum swallowed.
And you can always tell when your sucking a straight man's dick. He's gonna try and pull out, or tell you he's about to cum or ask if you want him to cum in your mouth.
I have had my cock sucked by more women than I can remember and every one of them swallowed, why all this talk about swallowing?
I've had some really good blow jobs from women as well as men. I think it depends on the individual but either way being sucked off by someone who is good at it and blowing a wad in their mouth is about the most incredible feeling I can think of personally whether it's a man or woman.
I've had great, good, sub par blow jobs from both men and women. IMO, it's all in how much does the person enjoy sucking a dick. My ex-wife always sucked my dick before intercourse and I enjoyed it but she only sucked it to get it hard to penetrated her. I considered her to be good. I had a girlfriend who just bobbed her head up and down with my dick in her mouth, no real sucking action who I labeled sub-par and ended it with her. My present wife loves my cock, she says she adores it and makes love to it with her mouth. All eight inches and my balls get oral attention from her lips, tongue, and throat. She orally worships my cock! She drools, and slobbers, and slurps on it. The edging goes on for an hour as I harden and soften and harden. She moans, and says how good it feels in her mouth and throat. She is great and swallows with pleasure. I've never had a guy who was sub-par though, all of them were either good or great. Taking all of me to the balls clinches great for me. An individual must first be into what they are doing and want to do it and get better each time. A higher percentage of men have been able to deep throat my 8 than the percentage of women.