The Great Big Anal Sex Thread!

now I'm not gay but my husband has done anal on me a couple times... just need to relax, that's the best advice.

And hey, you're only 16... relax - you can wait to have sex (I know that sounds totally adult and parental, sorry).... you never know what's out there, you're best off waiting before jumping in to something, it would suck if you contracted something so young...

 

LUBRICANT LUBRICANT LUBRICANT!!

Also, start off slow. No need to shred your insides!

 

Condoms Condoms Condoms!

 

Amyl, amyl, amyl

 

Whats amyl?

 

Amyl Nitrite or poppers .. a "drug" that is inhaled and is supposed to increase the sexual sensation.

 

Are those legal? Where do you get'em? Kava kava is legal and increases sexual sensation pretty well, but it tastes like shit and has to be drank in massive quantities that are kinda hard to get down the gullet.

 

and kava is bad for your health.
Lube.Lube.Lube.
Never stinge on the lube

 

Kava's bad for my health? Polynesians guys do it every night!

 

its bad for your heart more specifically

 

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And there are some guys who insert their fists into the rectums of other guys. I don't think that's too good for one's health either.

Just one man's opinion.

 

Sure it's a fun buzz for a little while but I always get incredible headaches after using it. I bet it's from the instant lowering of the blood pressure or just the effects of it being in my body. I personally don't think it's worth it. I keep hearing that it helps relax your sphincter but for me just breathing normal air is best. Nice full breathing, maybe a little breath of fire technique if it gets too intense but amyl always gets in the way of my concentration & full enjoyment of having anal sex. There are some dangers too. Too much use can do you in.

Here's what Gay Health Channel has to say about it (& a few other party drugs)

Amyl nitrate was originally developed as a treatment for angina; it directly affects the heart and cardiovascular system. The most popular street name for amyl nitrate, "poppers," comes from its initial packaging in thin glass vials, which were crushed or popped to release the vapors. When inhaled, this yellowish fishy-smelling synthetic liquid enters the bloodstream, lowers blood pressure, and increases pulse rate within seconds. It is also a muscle relaxant and causes feelings of well-being and tranquility. Because its muscle-relaxing effects affect the anal sphincter muscles, some use it prior to anal sex. Some people experience blackouts, dizziness, and respiratory problems; overuse can cause vascular collapse and death.

Amyl nitrate is sold in small brown bottles by head shops and smoke shops as "room odorizer," "head cleaner," "liquid incense," or "rave."

 

FDA has put out a warning that it's bad for your liver
FDA's KAva comment

I haven't tried this one so I can't comment from effectiveness but I think I'm going to stay away from it.

 

It will help stretch your sphincter as well as help you get used to the feel of something there.

Everything people have said about lubricants, condoms, & playing safely is good advice. Lube will definitely make it a much more enjoyable experience as well as make it a safer one.

Possibly the most important is to have a patient partner. If you have one who cares about you, believe it or not, it will be better too. I realize that this isn't always possible but for your first time if you can have these things you will always look back at that first experience with even more tender feelings than if it is a random thing with a stranger or something like that.

 

Rohoho! Of the thousands of Kva users the world over, 25 got sick and 4 required surgery. Fab...

 

But, what if the other guy goes too far, is that dangerous at all?

 

goes too far ? thats a loaded question. if you mean depth-wise .. umm yeah it could be dangerous. There are a lot of considerations, his length and girth, how hard he does it are just a few.

If you are relaxed and loosened up (fingered or a small dildo) and LUBED up that will help in reducing the pain. Above all as others have said PLAY SAFE, use condoms.

 

Suit yourself, Sandreckoner, it's your body.

 

GET A STRESS BALL .. haha... sorry haha..

peace
chickens

 

lots of lube, practice jerking off with a condom on so you know how it feels what to expect, most importantly is be relaxed, let the other dude stick 1 and then 2 fingers in you first to reduce some of the initial pain and don't jump into anything your not ready for, stand your ground man! There are plenty of other fun things to do other than anal! Have fun!