The first person you had sex with was...?

I was 14 and he was 16.

 

His girlfriend gets in the way of that. I guess he's decided to start having a conscience. That, and he got sick of me.

 

looks like im the only 1 who had sex with some1 who was younger.

 

If we're talking about with the same sex, my gf is just 6 months older then me and the whole thing really started at my instigation, I invited her for a sleepover.

As far as with boys, my very first time was giving oral and he was about a year older then me. The first guy that fucked me was a couple of years older then me.

 

the first guy for me is 18.....YEA

 

i was 16 and so was he

 

everyone i have had sex with has been the same age as me...not a conscious decision...it just kind of happened that way.

 

Actually, not necessarily. Remember that it usually is the first time for the younger person, but not for the older one. Of course, people get started earlier nowadays, and it's usually with a peer. In earlier days such as when I came out, the first person available was usually a few years older, sometimes considerably (more than 10 years) older. It was common to get started later too, at least for gays.

 

i think my theory is good: there are alot of us out there who first experimented with an older lover, and presumably there are a lot of older people out there screwing round with younger partners. sounds delightfully improper 2 me. of the 37 ppl who voted here, 18 first had sex with someone older, 15 with someone the same age age, and 4 with someone younger. i know 37 votes is hardly representative (it seems in these polls only about 10% of those who come and view the page actually bother 2 vote) but the age parity ppl seem to be in a minority.

 

the sam age as me .....a 14 yr old girl

 

This is a hard one to answer. First sex I had at all was with a boy my own age or maybe a year apart. First girl I had sex with was 5 years younger than me. The boy sex was oral, the girl sex was intercourse. Does it all count? I voted same age because that was the first sex, even though I didn't really want to do it, there were no girls available and he was.

 

I think the definitions on this poll are too vague. What is the difference between older, and a lot older.

I would suspect that most people had their first experience with someone close to their own age, say, within 20% of their age.

 

I have often wondered about something. A 17 year old is having a sexual relationship with a 14 year old and they truly love on another. A year passes and now they are 18 and 15 and they are still in this relationship. Because one of them is now 18 their relationship is illegal. One day it is legal and the next day it isn't which I think is stupid. Does anyone think that their relationship would also become immoral as soon as one of them turns 18?

 

I was 15, she was 29.. :S
It was definitely an experience..now if that's not illegal i dont know what is

 

I was 14 and they (two of them, girlfriends together ) were about a year and a half older.

 

no, of course not. it's crazy. but all 2 real i'm afraid: something on tv the other night about a young guy in exactly this predicament (in america) who went 2 jail 4 carnal knowledge 4 a couple of years and now has 2 register as a sex offender wherever he lives and go all around his neighbourhood, knock on the door and say 'hi, i'm ur new neighbour and i'm a pervert."

 

funny how most guys that takes a girls virginity turns out to be assholes...

And well my first time was with 3 girls a few years older than me that thought it was cute that I was a virgin... Nymphs the bunch of them, good times

 

First time I had sex was when I was 9 with an older boy who was 13 I believe. We found my dads porn and popped the tape in the vcr. I was aroused and didnt know what was happening. Well, he taught me what to do and I liked it. Luckily it wasnt one sided, I enjoyed it. But to this day I prefer older men over guys my age. Especially the older beefy bears. WOOF!

 

well i thought she was 18... turned out afterwards she was actually 16. but thats ok, coz i didn't tell her she was getting my virginity either. hehe... i haven't seen her much since, but it was fun while it lasted. she was 2 years younger than me.

it was at her house for a "movie night". we were having a pillow fight on her bed and then i just happened to land on her and pin her arms onto the bed... and the rest as they say is history!

but if we're talking not just first times then i've been with a 22yo, a 19yo and an 18yo. so all about my age.

 

My first experience was with a girl about 4 years older than me when I was 11, it lasted for a summer and when I turned 14 I hooked up with her again and used to go to her house on Friday or Saturday nights when her parents were out, that lasted a few years on and off. Eventually I was bringing my friends over there and we had some pretty interesting group meets. She also brought one of her friends in a few times. My first gay experience was about 14-15 with a kid my own age and that was on and off for about 5 years. We are still close friends to this day, although he is now married with kids we still meet for picnics and get togethers (no sex though, shucks!).
Jon