The 100% Single Thread

I'm 100% single and 100% unhappy with it

 

This thread keeps popping up, calling my name, so I am finally posting here. Now leave me alone! Yes, I am single.

 

I am 100% content without a lover. I am to set in my ways. I like solitude. I have always been a Hermit at heart. It is why I left every lover I have ever been with. Luckily they are all still friends. Even my ex husband is still a good friend.

 

I've been single for four years.
Is that a bad thing? Like does it make me creepy or weird or whatever? Does it mean that something is wrong with me?
Does it mean I'm not capable of ever being loved?
I don't know I wish girls liked me...and I wish I knew how to approach them and just start talking to them. But girls are kind of intimidating in a way...I don't know how to explain it.
Maybe I don't need a girl friend. Maybe I just need to get laid? But I don't even know how to go about doing that either.
Forever alone? I don't know.

And I know I'm coming across as being really insecure...Sorry about that.

 

Same here. I like people, but that doesn't mean I have to live with them. JOURNAL OF A SOLITUDE (by May Sarton) is an awesome book about how and why one can live alone and still be productive and happy.

QP

 

I've been single for about a month. I don't mind it at the moment but I don't want to be single for a long period of time. Thing is, it's not everyday I find the kinda girl I want to have a relationship with but when I do, they're already taken.

 

Careful you're going to get a bunch of people telling you to macho up.

 

ain't that the truth.



right now, i'd rather find a decent weed dealer than a girlfriend.

 

I've already got 99 problems.

 

I can be "macho" too or "man up" but every guy has a sensitive side.

 

A gentleman in the streets, a gangster in the sheets.

 

Hell yeah! You already know whats up:afro:

 

still single and ambivalent, I will admit I like to lurk guys who interest me but not very much becasue I dont want to be seen and I dont really talk to them.