True, they are fine if you don't need an erection. They are great if you want to have a relaxing, sexy receiving anal session
When I was playing w guys I had hooked up with one guy about 6 times. He was 9.5 and thick Out of the 6 maybe 2 times it was good. One particular time it wasn’t going in good and he ended up forcing on me.i told him no but he overpowered me. I consider it rape. It was the last time w him. I’ll stick w 5-7 guys
Sorry to hear you had to experience that, forcible anal sex will never end well with anyone. The entry and delivery must be done correctly for the receiver to enjoy what it provides. For 20 years my first wife after birthing three kids wanted only anal sex for the fantastic orgasms she experienced.