Straight or Bi?

I'm with you on a couple of points. Women turn my head, all of them. Very few men do the same. I also don't check out men when out and about. But if I see a physically fit well groomed man I pause and admire. Cock sucking or being fucked in the ass I can do without. I don't consider myself bisexual either. So, we do have a couple of things on common.

 

100 % straight.

 

Im exactly like you. I would walk down a street and would most likely spot a good looking girl and fancy her. However I would never feel the same about any man, no matter how “goid looking” he was. On the other hand, I have enjoyed all kinds of sex with men in my past, mostly sucking them off until they cum in my mouth. But I have given and received anal too and enjoyed it. Im in a relationship with a girl now, but i still regularly enjoy dildos sucking and fucking. I think its convenient for the world to label people like me and you as Bisexual, but I dont hugely agree with it. I think sexuality is a spectrum. Some are far one way or the other, straight or homosexual. However I also think we are all so different, how can there be a label for everyone, there cant so we just fall into that category.

 

Agreed

 

Let's see... if you like men and women for sex and/or relationships/emotional content, you're bisexual. The only things that makes us different in this is how we became bisexual and how we go about being bisexual but there is a label for everyone.... but you don't have to like it. It's not a convenience: It's a proven fact and it was proven way before I was born and before a lot of you were born. If you refer to the Kinsey scale, 0 is straight, 6 is homosexual, and 2 through 5 is some flavor of bisexuality based upon what you're more likely to do in the majority of times. I have a hard time understanding bisexuals who look like a duck, quack like a duck, but insist that they're not a duck.

Does it make a difference if you're attracted to men or not? No, it doesn't - you just gotta want to have sex with men and under whatever criteria that works for you at the individual level. You don't escape from under the label by saying, "It's not something I do all of the time..." or continually profess your love for women since, duh, that's implied in the definition or detailing what you do, when you do it, how you do it, who you do it with: If you, at the least, have sex with both men and women, you are bisexual. You don't have to like it; you don't have to accept that the label defines the behaviors but if you look like a duck and quack like a duck, you're a duck and not a coyote.

I'm likely to piss some of you off saying this and it is what it is. You're free to think whatever you care to... but the facts of the matter remain.

 

I mentioned in a past post that I fucked this guy while his wife watched. Unfortunately he did feel uncomfortable and was yelling, so I wanked him off to get it over quickly. He said that I was a big lad and next time he would like to give me a blow job. I was more interested in his wife bedding her for a weekend was wonderful