I'm not anybody at all either.. and really have never had anyone do internet stalking... but IRL had about three people follow me and one pinched me and another just lurked. It's creepy for a woman. Moreso than for a man. In here, at least, when you tell someone you're not interested it seems, so far, they leave you alone. I think there are some lonely people out there who need mastaburtory stimulation and try to engage in talk for that... or are in situations where they stay in relationships for financial security, won't divorce because of children.... a million reasons.. So you have a few nice conversations on line and in their fantasy heads they think this is way better than the non relationships they have IRL. So they offer plane fare to see you. You must have some decent qualities, which is laudable. You're non threatening and feel genuine to them. That may be something entirely new in their lives and they'd like to see what it'd be like in person, or sexually.... Some folk are starving and won't get up to eat a new dish at a different table IRL. You're probably a decent person. Feel good about that. The sad thing is that they likely don't have that kind of experience regularly in their RL. That is the sad part. Be glad you probably do...!!!
It's funny how all the female posters knew I was female and all the male posters assumed I was male. Even funnier with all the hints to my past neoprene queen screen name in my signature and title
I did not tumble, but as you know, I spend my time chatting to everyone, so gender is never at the forefront of my mind unless the topic is of a particular relationship or sexual matter. The funniest thing that happened to me (not on HF), was the guy who not realizing that Jane and I were 2 people had assumed that I was a transvestite. I only tumbled when I answered a message and he asked me to change into my short skirt before I replied.as Jane. We could not stop laughing. Since Jane has not posted on HF. I think that she has forgotten that I included her when I set the account up, So I do not have to include my name on every reply. .
I have had my share of stalkers, both in person and digitally. It seems pretty common, especially among women. I get why you've had so many stalkers, PR. I reflect on most of the people I know who have had similar experiences, and they tend to be bright and outspoken about whatever their niche belief is. That passion and surety attracts people.
Hippy forum women that get stalked , harassed, or requests for pictures, etc-----must take these things with equanimity/good humor, because no one ever seems to bitch about these things. Must be an occasional hassle though.
Oh yeah, you must get a lot of creepers messaging you with that avatar. Don't they know that women that beautiful don't hang out on the internet?
i do get a good amount of that, but not nearly as much as i used to for some reason. obviously beautiful women do hang out on the internet, but not one of them has herself as her avatar.
More so in the past on my end. Maybe I should liven up the old avatar. I don't want stalkers, But better to be stalked than to be a nobody!
So my stalker walk is talking, just happened to see her at the super market "hey hi yo that peanut butter sucks, you wouldn't like jiffy it ain't got no nuts, why don't you try these?" she ran away scared and I'm staring at her butt cheeks cause I know she love me, she wanna squeeze and hug and tug and love me.
I was wondering the same thing. Here sometimes, you really don't know because some members don't even say if they are male or female. I could never understand that shit.
I'm no stalker. I'm just overly friendly and intimate/personal and like to post memes and joke about mailing myself across the country. Anyways, I wished for a stalker once. An admirerer really. Thought it'd be fun. Got two or three. Be careful what you wish for.