spanked or be spanked / or switch

We're you able to spank her? How long it how many spankings did you get? What did she use to spank you. Did you both enjoy it?

 

Caught me off guard. She wanted me to put on a show for her backing up onto a toy tied to the bed post. It's pretty fun given all the mirrors around, sort of like watching someone else have sex and yet it you (me). Adds a whole new level of sensory input in addition to she was dressed, I was nude, I was totally exposed going at it as she watched, walked around, checking it all out, touching, and much more, Then out of no where Smack! My eyes were wide as saucers. Smack! Smack! I told her go for it if she liked it. She did. I'd say about 4 minutes with her hand, then she said she hurt her hand - lol. I'm sorry but that's funny to me, smacking someone for YOUR pleasure and getting hurt doing it. Kind of ironic. I did make sure she was okay. Because I laughed she wanted me to get rougher. Though she told me I was concerned about her so not too rough!. Funny dynamics.

No I did not spank her, I was busy backing my car onto a large pole. She seemed to enjoy it. We haven't discussed it yet. I am fine with whatever she wants and of course enjoy all the she does and is into. I learned early on, even if a guy is the boss, the lady is still in charge. If I'd tried some of the things with her she's tried with me she'd most likely rebelled. I have not met a lady yet that is not like that. I know there are some out there but not the ones I know. Even is their husband is dominant, he takes his cues from his wife whether he knows it or not.

 

I would love to spank a girl's ass, or a twink's ass. The sight of a sweet ass in front of me turns me on. To be able to whack it with my bare hand and give it a sting...mmm...
I would also love to be spanked. It sounds like a fun and kinky way to submit to someone.

 

taking turns sounds like a wonderful joyous thing to do. I've just this second had an epiphany. are we allowed to recommend legit dating sites to one another? while reading your lovely post and replying to it, it occurred to me, in my experience I have known a disproportionate amount of women who love to be the spankee, yet are quite shy and reticent about being the spanker I must broaden my social sphere post haste

 

I've never tried spanking but I have been spanked! It was a pre-arranged meet with a retired headmaster who was looking for someone to spank.

We arrived at the venue (another guys house), and he had a bag of implements! I had an ulteria motive in that I was really after some CBT...

He remained clothed while I was stripped and put over his knee.... it started off gently enough, with some spatulas etc.... and became more interesting as he spread my cheeks... He was flicking my anus with something but kept catching my balls.... That was nice!

The favourite implement turned out to be an acrylic strap. Not as harsh as other stuff so I could handle it better!

He was a bit doubtful when I suggested he slapped my penis but, I promised him a swallowing BJ if he did... He stripped, and I was surprised how small he was, not to mention still flaccid! Anyway, I'm reasonably well endowed and looked huge in comparison.

So, there was a table, and I laid my penis over the top... He took a couple of gentle taps and I reactrd immediately... I was already firm but as soon as he spanked, I became rigid! The strap was the implement of choice, and he slapped. progressively harder, both on the table top and on a cushion.... I'm uncut and had foreskin both extended and retracted.... The feeling was intense! It's surprising how much one can take as you get acclimatised.... I was hoping to cum while being slapped but not to be. He stopped on safety grounds and finished me off by hand....
Now it was my turn! I was grateful he wasn't too big, not even very hard, but he managed to cum.... I swallowed as promised and, fortunately, tasted nothing! I hardly knew he'd done the deed... As that was my time, I was quite pleasantly surprised... I certainly expected more taste, and more cum....

Apparently the guy who's house it was had been listening in (and maybe had a camera somewhere). After, he said he wanted me to visit him but I just had a feeling, if you know what I mean... It never happened!

I can say I was still bruised 4 days later.....

This was a while ago, and I've moved away from Poole (Dorset) so never met headmaster again. These days i mess about with stinging nettles and/or ginger puree etc... Other suggestions welcome! )

 

I'd like to switch. I'd take a spanking one night next I ll give a girl a spanking

 

I wouldn’t say I have a huge drive for spanking either giving or receiving. An occasional slap here and there to throw me or her off is okay, but nothing as a usually and normal goto.

 

Both

 

I really like to receive a spanking. I don't know why but I really get into it. A hand or a belt. I also like some light ball spanking too.

 

My lady friend likes to tease me about giving me a thorough bare bottom spanking. In the right mood I would go for it. At worst, I might get one every two weeks or so. I might learn to like it.

 

I can give it or take it, but honestly I would rather be on the receiving end

 

The first time I was spanked my SO and I were goofing around and whatever sassy thing I said prompted him to pull me over one of his knees, yank up my skirt, and start smacking my backside. At first I was laughing and squirming, trying to get away. But he had me well pinned and I soon noticed that each impact would cause me to lurch forward and then back, effectively turning his spanking into grinding masturbation as my clit slid up and down his leg. Between that and the sting of his hand I soon came thunderously!

 

Lol sounds like your hooked now

 

I'm most certainly hooked! And I love having my clit spanked too.

 

My lady friend has gradually evolved from shy and reserved to being more aggressive and curious about spanking and such. She suggested that I might need to receive bare-bottom maintenance spankings every two weeks with her hairbrush. I agreed to try it provided it is a real spanking.

 

That’s the best thing about birthdays is a good birthday spanking. And a can of vinilla frosting. I crave a couple birthdays a year. My so is not into it. My fwb. Was. But that ended a while ago. Her husband was a school teacher who retired and no longer had little boys running around to occupy him

 

Having never been spanked (even as a child) I would love to experience a good over the knee hand and maybe even hairbrush or paddle on my bare behind. I can’t say I would return the favor, but I can’t say that I wouldn’t….

 

I suggested that my lady friend read some online blogs on the subject of F/M spanking. My curiosity got the best of me after reading a few stories online that included 'corner time', anticipation, discipline, and quite real bare-bottom spankings. She brought up the subject (seemingly joking) and now I have set the invitation.

 

Giving a spanking and other impact can be fun, but on the receiving end does nothing for me.

 

I have a strong discipline relationship with my wife. There are house rules and a weekly spanking to maintain right attitudes. Am I alone?